04/13/2026
‘Holding space’ is a phrase many people recognise today, and writers like Heather Plett have helped articulate what this practice can look like in contemporary contexts.
In end of life work, holding space is an active, intentional practice. It’s not about stepping back or staying silent. It’s about being fully present without trying to fix, advise, or take control of what is unfolding.
That can be challenging. We are often conditioned to solve problems, to reassure, or to move things along. Holding space asks something different. It asks us to tolerate uncertainty, to sit with strong emotions, and to trust the other person’s process. In practice, this might look like allowing silence without rushing to fill it. Listening without interrupting or redirecting. Supporting someone to express what matters to them, even when it is difficult to hear. It also requires boundaries and self-awareness. Holding space does not mean absorbing everything or losing ourselves in another person’s experience. It means staying grounded while remaining open.
In end of life contexts, this kind of presence can be deeply supportive. It allows people to feel seen, heard, and respected, without pressure to be anything other than who they are.