Dr. Frankie Bashan Dating & Relationship Coach

03/26/2026

Le***an, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles! 🥰 April is full of new ways to meet, connect, and enjoy real conversations with great people.

💕 Here’s what we’ve got lined up:
April 1: Came Out Later in Life Online Speed Dating
April 9: 60s+ Online Speed Dating
April 10: San Diego Speed Dating at Cork & Stem
April 14: Berkeley Speed Dating at Mile Limit
April 15: 50s & 60s Online Speed Dating
April 19: Sacramento Speed Dating at LowBrau
April 21: Washington, DC Speed Dating at Spark Social
April 22: Philadelphia Speed Dating at Franky Bradley’s
April 23: 40s & 50s Online Speed Dating
April 26: Boston Speed Dating at Eastern Standard
April 29: 30s & 40s Online Speed Dating

👉 Link in our bio for tickets! Which one are you showing up to? 👀

03/25/2026

Love, laughs, and maybe a little magic ✨ That’s what our speed dating nights are all about! Hear what our community has to say and see why meeting new people this way is always a good time. ❤️

Want to join an upcoming event? Tap the link in our bio to check out our schedule and grab your spot! 🌈

03/24/2026

This Women’s Month, we celebrate women who lead with strength, confidence, and heart 🌼

At Little Gay Book, we honor women who guide, empower, and build meaningful connections in every part of their lives.

03/23/2026

Calling yourself “vanilla” doesn’t mean boring.

In this video, Dr. Frankie breaks down why that label is misleading and how “vanilla” s*x can actually be expansive, connected, and deeply intense in its own way.

It’s not about being more “spicy” or keeping up with trends. It’s about what genuinely feels good to you.

Watch now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckAlludJO64

Ever felt a little weird calling yourself “vanilla” when it comes to s*x? You’re not alone. In a world shaped by Fifty Shades and the pressure to be more “ad...

03/23/2026

Are you stuck in a loop of casual dates that never go anywhere? 🤔

Sometimes it’s not about the people you meet, but the patterns that keep repeating. From chasing chemistry over compatibility to avoiding vulnerability or settling for convenience, small shifts can make a big difference.

Our matchmakers help LGBTQ+ singles break these cycles and find connections that truly matter. 🩷

👉 Explore our personalized matchmaking today through the link in our bio.

03/20/2026

Today we recognize National Native HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. This day brings attention to the importance of education, access to care, and culturally informed support within Native communities. It is also a moment to honor the strength, resilience, and leadership within these communities.

Awareness and understanding help create more supportive and informed spaces for everyone. ❤️

03/19/2026

Our DC host, Miriam, is giving you the inside scoop 👀✨ She is breaking down how Little Gay Book speed dating works and why it’s such a fun way to meet new people. From quick chats to easy connections, she’s inviting you to come experience it for yourself at our next event at Spark Social. 💛

Curious to try it? This is your sign!

Tap the link in our bio to grab your tickets and join us on April 21 in Washington, DC 🌈

03/19/2026

Real stories, real connections 💛

Experiences like this show why we love helping people find meaningful love.

💕 Let our expert matchmakers guide the way. Start now through the link in our bio.

03/18/2026

Driven, playful, and ready to meet someone who gets it? 💖

Join our Career Minded online speed dating event on March 26 from 5–7pm PT and connect with Le***an, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles who share your ambition and spark. Fun conversations and real connections await! 🌈

👉 Tap the link in our bio to grab your tix and meet your match.

03/17/2026

60s+ and ready to meet someone new? 💛✨ Join us on April 9 for a fun online speed dating night created for Le***an, Bi, Trans, and Queer+ singles 60 and up. Expect great conversations, friendly faces, and a space where you can connect at your own pace from the comfort of home.

📅 April 9, 5–7pm PT
💻 Online

Early bird tickets are available through the link in our bio. Come say hello and see who you meet 💫

03/17/2026

Not everyone’s desires line up, and that doesn’t mean something’s wrong. 💛

Dr. Frankie Bashan breaks down what to do when you and your partner aren’t on the same page s*xually, from setting boundaries to figuring out what actually matters to you both. 🔥

Because sometimes it’s not about fixing it, it’s about understanding it.

Watch the full video on YouTube 👉 https://youtu.be/vzWmrs3gVrg

*xualCompatibility

What happens when you and your partner just don’t align s*xually?In this episode, Dr. Frankie Bashan shares how to navigate mismatched kinks and s*xual prefe...

03/14/2026

San Diego, we’re heading back to a favorite spot 🍷 Join us at Cork & Stem for another lively speed dating event with Le***an, Bi, Trans, & Queer+ singles. If you’ve been thinking about trying speed dating, this is a great night to jump in and see who you connect with. 💛

📅 April 10 | 6–8pm PT
📍 Cork & Stem, San Diego

Early bird tickets are available now. Tap the link in our bio to grab yours before prices go up. ✨

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