Dr. Frankie Bashan Dating & Relationship Coach

04/02/2026

We have a new event in Denver! 🥳 Femme singles in their 20s & 30s, we’re excited to be back at The Pearl for great conversations and easy connections. Join us for a Femme seeking Femme speed dating experience created for Le***an, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles to meet, mingle, and enjoy the moment. 💛✨

📍 The Pearl, Denver
📅 May 3, 5:30 - 7:30pm MT
🎤 Hosted by MissFitts Entertainment

Tickets are $25! Head to the link in our bio to grab yours now before they sell out.

04/01/2026

Check out our recent event in San Francisco! ❤️ It was full of laughs, sparks, and those little moments that make speed dating so fun. Alise brought the energy, the room was buzzing, and our daters came ready to connect 🫶

Missed this one? Stay tuned for more events in SF! Tap the link in our bio to check out our upcoming schedule 👀

04/01/2026

Dating should feel exciting, not exhausting. When you’re meeting people who align with your values, energy, and goals, everything shifts. Conversations flow easier. Connections feel more natural. And you stop second guessing what it could be.

That’s where we come in. At Little Gay Book, our expert matchmakers take the time to truly get to know you and introduce you to matches that make sense for your life, not just your profile. 💖

👉 Ready for something more intentional and actually worth your time? Tap the link in our bio to connect with one of our matchmakers.

04/01/2026

Not always “in the mood” at the same time? Totally normal.

Dr. Frankie Bashan breaks down spontaneous vs. reactive desire and why understanding your style can change how you experience intimacy 💭✨

Some people feel desire instantly, while others need connection or the right moment for it to build. Neither is wrong, just different.

Watch the full video here: https://youtu.be/35VZcG65XC4 🎥

Struggling with mismatched desire in your relationship? You’re not alone.In this video, Dr. Frankie Bashan breaks down the difference between spontaneous des...

03/27/2026

Proof that the right introductions can change everything 💕 We’re here for moments like this and the stories that follow.

👉 Start your own matchmaking journey through the link in our bio.

03/26/2026

Love is in the little moments 💕 Dr. Frankie shares her insight on one of the first signs of falling in love. When you start opening up, sharing what you normally keep to yourself, and feeling safe being honest about your emotions, it’s a meaningful signal that your heart is noticing something special.

👀 Curious to read more? Check out the full article from SugarDaddy.com here: https://www.sugardaddy.com/blog/first-signs-of-falling-in-love

03/26/2026

Le***an, Bi, Trans & Queer+ singles! 🥰 April is full of new ways to meet, connect, and enjoy real conversations with great people.

💕 Here’s what we’ve got lined up:
April 1: Came Out Later in Life Online Speed Dating
April 9: 60s+ Online Speed Dating
April 10: San Diego Speed Dating at Cork & Stem
April 14: Berkeley Speed Dating at Mile Limit
April 15: 50s & 60s Online Speed Dating
April 19: Sacramento Speed Dating at LowBrau
April 21: Washington, DC Speed Dating at Spark Social
April 22: Philadelphia Speed Dating at Franky Bradley’s
April 23: 40s & 50s Online Speed Dating
April 26: Boston Speed Dating at Eastern Standard
April 29: 30s & 40s Online Speed Dating

👉 Link in our bio for tickets! Which one are you showing up to? 👀

03/25/2026

Love, laughs, and maybe a little magic ✨ That’s what our speed dating nights are all about! Hear what our community has to say and see why meeting new people this way is always a good time. ❤️

Want to join an upcoming event? Tap the link in our bio to check out our schedule and grab your spot! 🌈

03/24/2026

This Women’s Month, we celebrate women who lead with strength, confidence, and heart 🌼

At Little Gay Book, we honor women who guide, empower, and build meaningful connections in every part of their lives.

03/23/2026

Calling yourself “vanilla” doesn’t mean boring.

In this video, Dr. Frankie breaks down why that label is misleading and how “vanilla” s*x can actually be expansive, connected, and deeply intense in its own way.

It’s not about being more “spicy” or keeping up with trends. It’s about what genuinely feels good to you.

Watch now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ckAlludJO64

Ever felt a little weird calling yourself “vanilla” when it comes to s*x? You’re not alone. In a world shaped by Fifty Shades and the pressure to be more “ad...

03/23/2026

Are you stuck in a loop of casual dates that never go anywhere? 🤔

Sometimes it’s not about the people you meet, but the patterns that keep repeating. From chasing chemistry over compatibility to avoiding vulnerability or settling for convenience, small shifts can make a big difference.

Our matchmakers help LGBTQ+ singles break these cycles and find connections that truly matter. 🩷

👉 Explore our personalized matchmaking today through the link in our bio.

03/20/2026

Today we recognize National Native HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. This day brings attention to the importance of education, access to care, and culturally informed support within Native communities. It is also a moment to honor the strength, resilience, and leadership within these communities.

Awareness and understanding help create more supportive and informed spaces for everyone. ❤️