Dr. Frankie Bashan Dating & Relationship Coach

12/23/2025

Your body deserves to feel good ✨. Tiny pleasures like head tinglers, warm wraps, or gentle touch can kickstart healing and shift how you experience your own skin. Start exploring what feels good today 🌿.

12/23/2025

Loving your body doesn’t have to start with love. ❤️
Dr. Frankie breaks down why body neutrality can be a more realistic place to begin, especially for q***r and trans folks navigating trauma, illness, dysphoria, and unrealistic standards. Learn practical ways to relate to your body with less pressure and more care. 🌿

Read the full blog now 👉 https://littlegaybook.com/lbtq-how-to-work-on-loving-your-body/✨

12/16/2025

Public s*x_ is one of the most common fantasies, but it’s also risky, uncomfortable, and taboo 👀🔥
So why does it turn so many people on?

This video breaks down the psychology behind risk, adrenaline, cruising culture, and why taboo can make s*x_ feel more intense for some people 🧠⚡

Watch the full video on YouTube for the full breakdown ▶️🎥
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F-atc5U4yro

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Public s*x_ is one of the most common fantasies in the U.S., but it can also be risky, uncomfortable, and taboo. So why does it turn so many people on?In thi...

12/16/2025

Not every desire lines up and that does not mean anyone is doing it wrong. When kinks don’t match, honest conversations, clear boundaries, and knowing your non-negotiables matter. 💬✨

Read the full article to explore what to do when s*xual interests don’t align and how to decide what comes next.
👉 Read here: https://littlegaybook.com/lbtq-when-kinks-dont-match/

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12/09/2025

Feeling nervous about talking dirty? 😏 Don’t worry, you’re not alone. Dr. Frankie breaks it down with simple, s*xy tips to help you speak your desires with confidence.

Watch the full video and turn up the heat in the bedroom! 🔥
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9DLUdX7Olk

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12/07/2025

Perimenopause can shift how your body feels, your moods, and your s*x life. If things have felt a little off lately, you’re not alone. Dr. Frankie shares what’s actually happening, why it happens, and what you can do to feel more at home in your body again 💛🌿

💻Read the full blog to learn more: https://littlegaybook.com/perimenopause-and-your-s*x-life/

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12/02/2025

Joy is impact. Frankly Speaking Films' work has helped raise more than $1M+ to support LGBTQ+ women and nonbinary people, convened conversations with nearly 1000 medical professionals that improve care for patients with disabilities and caregivers, and helped enshrine the right to abortion in seven states in 2024. 💛

This Giving Tuesday, help put joy in every frame and donate to Frankly Speaking Films:
→ https://franklyspeakingfilms.com/donate

12/02/2025

Feeling disconnected in your relationship? 😕 You’re not alone. Many couples experience stretches without s*x, and it can leave you questioning if your relationship is “working.”

Dr. Frankie breaks down what it really means to be in a s*xless relationship, how to understand your needs, and ways to navigate intimacy without shame or judgment. 💬❤️

Watch the full video on YouTube to get practical advice for s*xless marriages and relationships 👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ARpTLBfl638

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Are s*xless marriages and relationships actually sustainable? In this video, Dr. Frankie breaks down what it really means to be in a s*xless relationship — a...

12/01/2025

Such an incredible night at Barnes & Noble The Grove! Huge thank you to The Los Angeles Tribune, Barnes & Noble, and the amazing for allowing me to share a glimpse of my upcoming book about building deeper intimacy and strengthening partnerships. ✨📘

Grateful for everyone who showed up, listened, and brought so much energy to the room.

11/30/2025

Ever wondered where “sugaring” really sits on the spectrum of power, money, attraction, and autonomy? 🌶️

Our latest blog breaks down what sugar baby dynamics look like today — how they overlap with s*x work, how they differ, and why the lines aren’t as clear as people think.

If you’ve been curious about the culture, the misconceptions, and the very real nuances behind these arrangements, this one’s worth a read.

Click here to dive into the full article: https://littlegaybook.com/lbtq-sugaring-vs-s*x-work-differences/

11/28/2025

Struggle with keeping up over text? You’re not the only one. Here’s how to make texting smoother without living on your phone 🤳

Watch the full video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c4tUZ6HJh7g

Struggling with being a “bad texter”? You’re not alone.Whether you forget to reply, overthink what to say, or just hate texting altogether, these habits can ...

11/23/2025

Being single can be one of the most powerful seasons of your life. When you stop holding back and start living with intention, everything shifts ✨

Read the full article for the strategies that actually help 👇
https://littlegaybook.com/lbtq-how-to-enjoy-being-single/