Dr. Frankie Bashan Dating & Relationship Coach

02/09/2026

Understanding Spontaneous vs. Reactive Desire can explain mismatched libidos, reduce frustration, and make conversations about intimacy way easier. There’s no right or wrong style — just knowing how you’re wired and communicating it. ✨

Curious which one sounds like you?
Read the full article: https://littlegaybook.com/spontaneous-vs-reactive-desire-lbtq/

02/06/2026

Curious about the “breeding kink” you’ve been seeing online? 🤔

Dr. Frankie breaks down what it really is, why people are into it, and why it’s showing up more in conversations today. From power dynamics and taboo to emotional intensity, she explains it all, no judgment, just insight.

🎥 Watch the full video on YouTube to learn more:

Dr. Frankie breaks down the concept of a “breeding kink_,” why it exists, and why it seems to be showing up more in conversations on social media, romance no...

02/05/2026

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01/11/2026

Want to step into a dominant role but not sure where to start? 😏 Power, control, and play look different for everyone. This video breaks down how to find your dominant style, understand your sub, and create a dynamic that works for both of you.

Watch now and get tips to confidently own your D/s headspace: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQFDig9haP4 🔥

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Ever wondered how to step into a dominant role in a D/s relationship but didn’t know where to start? This video breaks it down in a way that’s practical, app...

01/10/2026

Pleasure deserves intention. Dr. Frankie shares why the Lush 4 by Lovense stands out: wearable, discreet, hands-free, and built for real life, not just fantasy. Powerful control, total freedom, and confidence wherever you are. 🔥✨

Check the comments to shop Lush 4 and explore more Lovense favorites. 🛍️

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01/06/2026

Ever heard of compersion? 🌈 It’s the feeling of joy when your partner is happy with someone else, the “opposite of jealousy” in non-monogamous relationships.

Curious how it really works, whether it’s the same as cuckolding, or why it doesn’t mean you’re failing if you don’t feel it all the time?

Read the full blog here 👉 https://littlegaybook.com/lbtq-what-is-compersion-non-monogamy/

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01/01/2026

2025 showed up big 🌈✨ Thank you to everyone who believed in Little Gay Book this year. We’re grateful for the partnerships, the community, and the moments that mattered most. Excited for more collaborations and impactful experiences in 2026. Happy New Year! 🎉

12/30/2025

Curious about kink? 😏✨

We’re unpacking the most popular kinks for couples (and how to try them)—without shame, pressure, or judgment.

Watch it on YouTube: link in comments.

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12/28/2025

Ever wondered why threesomes are one of the most common s*xual fantasies, even for people who would never act on them? 👀✨

This blog breaks down what’s really behind the fantasy. From craving novelty and flirting with taboo, to exploring same s*x attraction, voyeurism, or curiosity about non-monogamy, it’s often less about the act and more about what the fantasy represents.

Fantasies don’t mean something is wrong. They can be information.

Read the full blog to unpack what your fantasies might be telling you: Link in comments

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12/28/2025

Life is too short for bad s*x and “bad” is usually trying to tell you something.

In this episode, Sky Blue Kutchie joins us for an honest, grounded conversation about desire, libido, aging, shame, and what actually helps intimacy feel better over time. We talk about why bad s*x is often a signal, how to communicate needs without spiraling, and what ethical non monogamy really requires when done with care.

If you’ve been questioning your libido or wanting a clearer, healthier way to talk about pleasure, this one’s for you.

Watch the full video on YouTube now ▶️✨ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2qICT5-Wnbs

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In this episode, we sit down with Sky Blue Kutchie, certified relationship, intimacy, and s*x_ therapist and pleasure advocate, for an honest conversation ab...

12/23/2025

Your body deserves to feel good ✨. Tiny pleasures like head tinglers, warm wraps, or gentle touch can kickstart healing and shift how you experience your own skin. Start exploring what feels good today 🌿.

12/23/2025

Loving your body doesn’t have to start with love. ❤️
Dr. Frankie breaks down why body neutrality can be a more realistic place to begin, especially for q***r and trans folks navigating trauma, illness, dysphoria, and unrealistic standards. Learn practical ways to relate to your body with less pressure and more care. 🌿

Read the full blog now 👉 https://littlegaybook.com/lbtq-how-to-work-on-loving-your-body/✨