08/07/2025
This past week, something frightening happened here at Ebb and Flow. A dump truck loaded with pea gravel lost its brakes at the top of our property. It careened downhill, rolling three times before finally crashing—coming to a stop just inches from the house.
I arrived on the scene about 15 minutes later, completely unaware of what had happened. Emergency crews were already in action—fire, police, and aid cars all present. It was a shocking sight.
Miraculously, the driver sustained only minor injuries. 🙏 We’re incredibly grateful for that. However, the impact caused significant damage to the landscape, rock walls, outdoor lighting, and driveway. Repairs will take months, but I'm thankful it wasn’t worse.
My niece described my response to the scene—interacting with first responders, the driver, and everyone involved—as “zen.” Her words have stayed with me and made me reflect on how much yoga has shaped my way of being. Not just the asana (poses), but the deeper teachings of the practice.
One that stands out is Aparigraha, or non-attachment—one of the five Yamas, the ethical guidelines within the eight limbs of yoga. Aparigraha invites us to release our grip on expectations and outcomes. In the face of something as unexpected as an accident, it means letting go of the belief that “this shouldn’t have happened,” and choosing not to hold resentment toward those involved. That shift in perspective can be a powerful path toward acceptance and healing.
Another Yama that comes to mind is Ahimsa—non-violence. This principle extends far beyond refraining from physical harm; it also encompasses our thoughts, words, and intentions. In a situation like this, any judgment, anger, or reactive thoughts I might have brought would have only added more suffering for everyone involved.
Of course, I feel sad about the damage to the property. But more than anything, I feel deep gratitude that everyone is okay. Accidents happen. In time, the landscape will be restored—lush, welcoming, and whole once again.
I considered sharing a photo of the dump truck in the yard - but instead, I chose this image from the very next day: a visit to the local lavender farm with family. JOY! 📿
