08/21/2024
These past days with Kim and her son Tarik have been so special and quite profound. Brent and I did sessions with Kim in some capacity each day. We presenced the ending/ death that was the accident, allowing room for the completion. We both honored and grieved what has been and what is being let go of. We felt the aliveness and light flooding through, a matrix of rebirth and new possibilities for Kim, for ourselves, for humanity. We attuned to and aligned with that, as we simultaneously tracked the seemingly mundane. We set up new systems (from upgraded meridians to shower grab bars ;) and worked to dismantle old systems to create time, space and supports for the immense healing and transformation that Kim’s beautiful brain, body and being are undergoing.
Kim’s surrender to, grace with, and love of life is astounding. She is seeing the world through new eyes, with an increased level of childlike wonder which is beautifully infections. Brent even joked about taking her to a pediatrician as she is exquisitely re-born and new in so many ways. And just like a baby who needs deep rest and quiet to integrate the magnitude of learning and stimulus, this time of going in and being silent is so important for Kim right now. Sleep, rest and spacious stillness are dear friends of hers and will feed her deeply.
Brent, Tarik and I went to Kim’s doctor appointment with her last Friday. It was quite cozy in there. Lol. Her doctor was very kind as he spoke to the immensity of this injury and the slow process when healing from such an impactful head trauma. Kim will be seeing a cranial sacral therapist she has worked with in the past, a neurologist who focuses on eyes and balance, and likely a Network Chiropractor. I did a lot of Network with her and her body and especially central nervous system were so responsive. She reported dura releases, increased nerve communication and flow, spinal and cranial alignment and increased range of motion to name a few. It is so fun for both Brent and I to work with her. The amount of internal awareness and reflection of what she is experiencing with each contact is quite astounding.
I thought it would be fun to show you a picture as Brent and I came equipped with a potent bag of healing goodness. We forgot to take a photo, so here is a visual picture instead.
Arnica 1M – profound for head trauma. 1-2 pellets have been used ASAP after the trauma and then again 3 weeks later.
Unda Arnica Cream – my favorite for bruising and pain
Novus Optimum: Brain Sharpener supplement – incredibly supportive of cognitive function
NET #9 homeopathic “rescue remedy” type spray: ER911
Both amazing internally and around the body, for trauma, overwhelm and re-balancing. It is also awesome for animals and kids.
Additionally, we had a laser, acupuncture needles, tuning forks, an Arthrostim (adjusting tool that looks gun like…always a favorite in security) and a multi-color healing “flashlight”.
On our trip, I got excited and jokingly coined what may be a new form of Acupuncture… Cacupuncture… and Brent made the magic happen as you can see in the picture. We all enjoyed it, as did the Saguaro and Prickly Pear Cactus.
Back to Kim…Pain levels have reduced, and there is still extreme inflammation, especially in the brain. The bruising and hematoma are going down rapidly. In large part due to our dear friend arnica. The grace that Kim is walking through all of this with is rather astounding. She is now able to traverse her house without a cane, for the most part, utilizing walls and counters as needed for support. Out in the world and on uneven ground, she is still stabilizing with her cane and so tenderly reaches out to hold our hands. It is so precious. And, she is so much more stable than when we first saw her on Thursday. We did a lot of work to support her feet, legs and grounding, which in gorgeous Kim fashion, she felt recalibrating and impacting throughout her body.
Even with all of this incredible transformation, Kim is still cognitively very altered. Tracking in general in this more physical realm, outside of her own body, is inconsistent at best. It is all quite tiring, and she is napping regularly. Specifics such as details, sequencing, and organizational skills are severely compromised. At times we would gently illuminate when Kim spoke something that was not congruent with reality. We would all lovingly laugh as she would acknowledge how clear that makes it that she cannot be working right now. Her coordination is such that driving a car is not anywhere in the foreseeable future. Life is very different. At this point, not only can Kim not use screens, she is unable to read a book. We had to discuss how to navigate changes in her work and life in very small snippets, as this type of mental functioning was exhaustive for her. And as she was simply able to be present, in the moment, not tracking anyone or anything, there was such a sense of light and peace about her.
Friday was Brent’s and my wedding anniversary. We had planned to be out of town, which synchronistically, allowed this time to be more easily available to go and support Kim. It was so special to share it with Kim and Tarik along with an amazing meal including Chocolate Ganache! I have attached the photographer’s (Kim) pick.
Thank you to everyone who brought cards for us to give to Kim. They were lovingly received. We will keep the box for cards outside our office for the next 2 weeks if you would like to drop them off. They will be sent as part of a larger love & care package, along with a few supplement refreshers.
Brent and I flew home Monday evening. We utilized every moment of our last few hours together then left Kim to the deep, deep rest and integration of all that has transpired over the last 5 days together, 3 weeks since the accident, decades of teaching, 70 years of life, and more.
We feel blessed by this time together and so grateful for the divine alignment that continued to shine its way through the entire journey. It was such a miracle to watch Kim so quickly arrive at such clarity about the gifts, opportunities and upgrades being offered through his accident. The masterful precision of it all, simply asking us to surrender to the Light of that.
Your loving prayers and support through contributing and sharing the GoFundMe are an absolute blessing of blessings to Kim. She was moved to tears of gratitude repeatedly over our time together at the outpouring of support. May we receive the invitation of this exquisitely heartbreaking moment, inviting us to open together, beyond our capacity, to ever greater Love.
