02/26/2026
As a woman approaching perimenopause, thereâs a LOT of noise out there around fitness/wellness.
If youâre 35+, your social media feed may be like mine and FULL of all the things you âshouldâ be doing to prevent weight gain, get more sleep, and feel good in this stage of life.
And while I know the research and believe there are some great tips out there, hereâs the problem: The list is totally OVERWHELMING.
* Get in 10-15,000 steps
* Lift super heavy
* Donât do cardio
* Do some HIIT but not too much
* Take these 10 supplements
* Make sure youâre drinking a gallon of water/day
* Eat your weight in protein
* Stay away from carbs - but eat some if youâre working out hard.
* Donât work out too hard, or your stress hormones will go all out of whack
* Wear a weighted vest
* Get 8-10 hours of sleep
* Use a red light. Stay away from blue light.
* Do regular cold plunges. Or a sauna
* Make sure to relax, breathe, do some yoga, journal, and stretch.
Am I the only one who feels like this list is daunting? If not impossible?
I know there are some good things on this list, but dedicating each day to it would literally be my full-time job. And I donât want âtaking care of myselfâ to be my full-time job.
AlsoâŚI donât think my entire focus every single day should be about ME and my body.
There HAS to be a better wayâŚwithout the stress and the overwhelm.
Does this mean we totally throw in the towel? No.
Does it mean we toss the whole list down the drain? No.
But no one can tackle ALL the healthy habits at once AND stick with it AND stay sane.
Habits that LAST are tackled SLOWLY. With INTENTION. In the simplest process that makes it almost TOO easy. It is NOT a quick fix. But it is a way to develop habits that will last beyond the next two months.
This is why I developed Refine Fitness! Many programs have you bite off way more than you can easily chew, and youâre going to end up frustrated and overwhelmed. Our way makes it simple, so you can still live your life without feeling like your entire day revolves around all the things youâre âsupposedâ to be doing.
Does this sound like a better way to make a change? Join us - comment âmoreâ for the details!đ¤