
08/28/2025
The hardest part about pregnancy & postpartum for me was NOT the back pain or diastasis. It wasnāt the lack of sleep or newborn needs.
It was my mind and my view of my body.
I wish I could say I loved being pregnant. Iāve been ashamed to admit that, mentally + emotionally, it was really hard for me. It was hard to see my body changing, to see what was āleftoverā early postpartum. I had been a slave to the scale and trying to control my body before I had babies.
I beat my body up, trying to keep weight off, ending up with injury and pain. I pushed too hard early postpartum, delaying my healing time. I had all sorts of negative thoughts, hating my body for being slow to lose the postpartum weight, unlike others that I knew.
Now I wish I could give that girl a hug and some words of encouragement b/c the attack on her mind and heart was severe. Satan stole a lot of the joy out of my pregnancies, making me so focused on my changing body. While this was hard to admit b/c I know pregnancy is such a gift and babies are true miracles, I know other women are struggling with the same thing.
All you can see is the ābaby bumpā leftover from pregnancy.
Youāre frustrated with your slow postpartum healing and the pounds that seem to stick.
Or perhaps you are past the baby years and experiencing the effects of middle age and changing hormones.
I honestly hate talking about weight b/c itās NOT something I want you to dwell on. I want you to live FREE! Yet, becoming at home in our bodies and seeing them as GOOD is difficult.
While I canāt promise you easy weight loss in Refine Fitness, I can promise you this: Youāll have an encouraging leader who wants to see you set FREE. While thereās nothing wrong with wanting to lose weight and improve our health, I want you to do so while still honoring and respecting the GOOD body youāve been given. I want to show you how you can live FREE, even on a health journey. You donāt have to be chained to the scale, and you can move in FREEDOM wherever you are - pregnancy, postpartum, or into middle age.
Iāve learned a better way, and Iād love to walk with you and help you, too. Join us - doors close tonight at midnight!
XO, Tanyaš