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It’s You!!

01/13/2025

There is no hierarchy of “types” of relationships. In the world I aspire to, friends can become family. Lovers can become friends.

In the best circumstances, we feel that we belong to a community.

I started offering Marco Polo coaching as a way to support clients who felt the call to work with me but needed a differ...
10/15/2024

I started offering Marco Polo coaching as a way to support clients who felt the call to work with me but needed a different exchange structure than my standard offerings.
It has turned out to be a really fantastic way to support everyday integration and have more flexibility for both me and the clients.
It also provides a really great back and forth attunement structure that is harder to create in person or on the phone.
I’ve had enough great experiences with it that I want to advertise it as an official offering.
If you are struggling with relationships, your body, intimacy, or you’ve recently experienced a spiritual or psychological expansion and want some wise and loving support, let’s talk!
Reach out and we will create a custom support experience that honors your life situation.
❤️❤️❤️

This feels relevant to my world again right now. I told Dallin the other night I feel less and less appropriate for “pub...
10/10/2024

This feels relevant to my world again right now. I told Dallin the other night I feel less and less appropriate for “public consumption” and we laughed and bought some donuts for our kids who are way more free to explore experiment and be in their own ways than I ever felt in my youth.
When I first saw this painting by Raquel Callis she said something about the quiet dignity of this maligned goddess walking in public with snakes in her hair and finally telling the story from her own perspective-
And I burst into sobs and felt her story in my body and brought Medusa home and one day last year this poem broke through me:

Let the Wild Rumpus Start!

Darling-
It was not you,
They turned themselves to stone,
Afraid to see and know their own
Unique
Weird power

Eve exchanged suffering
For knowledge
To let the men
Pass through her portal
Into fear.

It is finished.

When you see
Put your head back on
Put your head back on
And walk into the wild world
That made you
Naked
And see that you can walk
With peaceful
Weirdness
A head full of snakes
And dignity

They turned themselves
To stone
Their judgements have no
Effect
But to hasten their freedom
Either by choosing
Their own weird dance
Or becoming soft by their rotting
In their sepulchers.

Put your head back on
And sing your story
So you can dance
In the fields of flowers
That grow, even now
even now
Through the cracks
Of the stones once laid
By corpses.

The world is then too full
To talk about.
Put your head back on.
Come alive in this mourning-
This morning of resurrection,
And dance

-Xochitl

“Even as hope seems lostIt may be found againI have felt aloneBut I have never been”-Avett BrothersFeeling grateful for ...
09/10/2024

“Even as hope seems lost
It may be found again
I have felt alone
But I have never been”
-Avett Brothers

Feeling grateful for this brief and timely visitor at my bedroom window. It made sure it had my attention and then flew away.

Here’s all of the song. 🥹❤️

Whether we speak up
Or we are silent
If we are willing
Or we are done

If we're courageous
Or we are cowards
We may be burdened
But we are loved

Whether we stay true
And do for another
If we are hidden
Or we're discovered

If we're forgiven
Or we're forgotten
We may be lonely
But we are loved

Every stitch and seam
Every wish and dream
Even in tragedy
There lies divinity

Even as hope seems lost
It may be found again
I have felt alone
But I have never been

If you are standing
Or cannot stop moving
Whether you're haunted
Or cannot remember

Over the gravestone
Under the rainbow
Pain comes and pain goes
And we are loved

Every stitch and seam
Every wish and dream
Even in tragedy
There lies divinity

Even as hope seems lost
It may be found again
I have felt alone
But I have never been

If we are spirit
Or we are human
Crossing the river
Or harboring change

If we deny it
Or if we face it
May we embrace it
We are loved

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