11/05/2024
Sometimes healing requires challenging the narratives weâve been taught about relationships, boundaries, and self-worth. Letâs break these down âŹď¸
đNot every relationship can be saved. And thatâs okay.
â¨Not every connection is meant to last forever. Holding on out of fear of loss or guilt can do more harm than good. Itâs okay to let go when a relationship no longer aligns with your growth or well-being.
đFamily may be the reason you need boundaries, not the exception to them.
â¨Family can shape us, but that doesnât mean we owe them unlimited access to us. Healthy boundaries are necessaryâeven with those closest to usâto protect our peace and self-respect.
đItâs okay if âgetting over itâ isnât the goal. Healing is about learning to live with it differently.
â¨Some wounds donât fully disappear, and thatâs okay. Healing doesnât mean erasing the past; it means finding a way to hold it with compassion, without letting it define your present.
đYour comfort zone isnât safe if itâs suffocating you.
â¨Staying in familiar situations can feel safe, but if itâs keeping you from growth, itâs holding you back. Real safety is about expanding your capacity for joy, love, and possibility.
đâYou attract what you areâ isnât true. Trauma doesnât attract more traumaâhumans seek connection, even imperfect ones.
â¨Trauma survivors arenât âbroken magnetsâ for more pain. Connection is a human need, and we may find it even in less-than-perfect spaces. Healing allows us to find healthier connections, but thereâs no shame in the journey.
đSometimes, âlet it goâ is just code for âstop holding people accountable.â
â¨Not every situation can be brushed off. Holding people accountable doesnât mean dwelling in anger; itâs about recognizing your worth and reinforcing respect in all relationships.
Healing is messy, nonlinear, and often counterintuitive. What resonates with you most? Let me know in the comments! đ¤