09/09/2025
Motherhood has a way of pulling every piece of you outward your time, your energy, your heart all stretched thin in service of the people you love most. And while you’re busy making sure everyone else is cared for, it’s easy to forget that you need mothering, too. 💖
Here’s the truth I remind my clients (and myself): the mother in you deserves rest, gentleness, and grace. Not because you’ve “earned it” or finally checked everything off your list, but simply because you’re human.
✨ Rest without guilt
✨ Speak to yourself kindly
✨ Ask for support
✨ Celebrate the small wins
These aren’t luxuries. They’re lifelines.
High-achieving moms especially struggle with this …the voice that whispers:
👉 “If I slow down, I’m failing.”
👉 “If I need help, I’m weak.”
👉 “If I don’t do it all, I’m not enough.”
But that voice isn’t truth, it’s anxiety talking. Healing means softening that voice and replacing it with:
💖 “I’m allowed to pause.”
💖 “I’m allowed to be supported.”
💖 “I’m already enough, right here, right now.”
Motherhood isn’t meant to be perfect. It’s meant to be lived. And when you care for the mother in you, you create space for joy, connection, and calm in your family, too.
So this week, give yourself permission to mother yourself: take the nap, ask for the hand, speak with compassion, notice the wins.
✨ Save this post for the days you forget the mother in you deserves care, too.