Nicole Ohebshalom, RN, LPC

07/26/2025

High-functioning doesn’t have to mean low-touch.

Play is foreplay.
And safety is sexy.

07/25/2025

06/26/2025

In therapy, we often seek clarity—answers, resolution, direction. But Rilke invites us into a different posture: one of patience toward the unknown.
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What if the healing isn’t in solving, but in staying present with what’s unresolved?
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To live the questions is to hold space for complexity. To allow ambiguity. To trust that insight often arrives not with force, but with time.
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This is the heart of deep therapeutic work—
not to fix, but to be with.
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Let this be a gentle reminder: not knowing is not failure. It’s part of becoming.
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01/14/2025

Gratitude is a great way to open up our ability to feel connected with others. By

01/01/2025

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12/18/2024

02/03/2024

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02/03/2024

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07/31/2023

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07/16/2023

It’s important to note that these descriptions are generalizations, and individuals can exhibit a mix of attachment styles or transition between them in different situations. Understanding your own and your partner’s attachment styles can foster empathy, communication, and negotiation, allowing you to meet each other’s sexual needs more effectively.

Remember, open and honest communication is key in addressing and navigating the unique sexual needs that arise from attachment styles within your committed relationship.

06/25/2023

Understanding Attachment: Building Stronger Relationships. Today, let’s dive into the fascinating world of attachment theory and how it shapes our relationships. Remember, attachment styles can evolve over time and with self-awareness. By recognizing our own attachment patterns, we can foster healthier bonds and cultivate compassion for others. 🌟💕

Swipe left ⬅️ for some practical tips on nurturing secure attachments and building stronger relationships!

Let’s embark on this journey of self-discovery and interpersonal growth together. Share your thoughts, experiences, and any questions you may have in the comments below. Let’s spread love and understanding! 🌍💞

06/25/2023

Today, let’s explore practical ways to cultivate secure attachments and build resilient, fulfilling relationships. Remember, building secure attachments takes time and effort from both partners. Embrace vulnerability, communicate openly, and foster a culture of love, respect, and understanding.

Share this post with someone you cherish and let them know you’re committed to cultivating a secure, loving bond. Tag your partner or friends who inspire you to nurture healthier relationships!

Together, let’s create a world filled with strong, joyful connections. 🌍💕