
07/25/2025
Tomorrows the day:
Well it has arrived. The day that simultaneously terrifies and elates me. The day that we are able to fully enjoy the life and soul of my mom, while also ushering out the season of mourning. We are so blessed by everyone that joined us on this journey. It has been inspiring to say the least that mom’s life had bumped into such a shocking number of others.
The reality of grief is that there is no set timeline. There is no set goals or expectations of how to move through it. Some start out strong and process the crap out of everything and then the reality of the little blips that pop into the mundane that rock them to their core. Others stay busy and refuse to process past what they need to survive and then they inevitably hit the wall and where there is no more movement without processing. Neither are wrong or right.
Life has a way of showing you what you need when you need it if you know how to pay attention. All this to say, there is no expectations for tomorrow past being kind and attempting understanding. There will be blubberers and stone facers, blabbers and reverence seekers. All are welcome if they lead with kindness and understanding. There is no one right way to mourn a loved one. As we have shared her in life we share her in death. She is loved by so many of the living that it would be selfish for us not to.
We are so honored that you all have been such lights and encouragement through out our processes. There will be need for support still and on into the future as the un marked waves of grief and pain and sadness resurface from time to time.
In light of how mom lived her life we invite you to come tomorrow and be casual and colorful. There will be snacks, coffee, water, lemonade and tea. Feel free to arrive anywhere between 11-11:45 to mingle and snack and share stories, around 12 we will start our service, and feel free to stay around after the service enjoying fellowship until 2.
As always remember to bloom where you’re planted. 🌹🪻🌸🌺🌷🌻🌼🪷