10/27/2025
Being there for your partner.
Life presents us with many challenges and difficulties. On the flip side, It brings opportunities and chances. This is why there’s not a script for couples to follow in their respective relationships.
Because of the ups and downs, it is important for couples to be present and available for their partners to talk to openly. It is also important for couples to recognize when to listen, provide support, and when to advise or provide feedback/suggestions.
For us, we’re still trying to navigate our new normal which is living together, balancing work and daycare schedules, finding time to spend quality time with each other, making time for family, balancing our finances, and the list goes on.
During this time, being available is critical. My wife just joined me in a different country where people are stereotyped and treated differently for many different reasons, and the concept of work much different. Being a support for her and helping her settle in is a top priority.
During breaks and after work I love to hear about her day, what went well and what did not. She explains her day with examples of scenarios and her approach. We laugh some out, talk about some, joke about some, and sometimes deep dive into others. These moments creates a space of open conversation.
I personally look forward to this moment because I always have something to share about my day as well. Considering I just took a new assignment, I’m also adjusting to the new environment and the team.
Hearing those words of encouragement and having someone I can lean on at all times when I’ve a tough day is important for me to continue moving with a positive attitude.
Being a support system and a partner is what makes a great relationship. Being open to listening, challenging, cheering, and pushing each other takes couples to the next level.