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10/23/2025

Navigating dynamics with in-laws can be really challenging. This rings especially true when there is codependency in the family system and influence from outside the family is frowned upon. Check out our blog post linked in the bio to learn about ways to navigate in law relationships as a couple!

10/23/2025

In-law relationships can be one of the most complex dynamics in families. When you marry someone, you don't just gain a partner—you gain an entire family system with its own history, values, and ways of relating. If you have a difficult relationship with your in laws, you are probably aware of that toll it has taken on your marriage.

If you're struggling with your in-laws, you're not alone. Here are three common patterns that can make these relationships particularly difficult.

If you're struggling with your in-laws, you're not alone. Here are three common patterns that can make these relationships particularly difficult.

10/21/2025

The burnout is real!

10/13/2025

Happy Monday night yall! How’re yall planning on resting and recharging today?

04/16/2025

Check out our latest blog post!

Learn about the reasons why people avoid s*x in relationships and how to build compassion.

12/24/2024

Thanks for the feature The New York Times

Experts share tips for minimizing irritation and avoiding intrusive questions.

10/10/2024

Guilt is a natural part of the human experience, but if it starts interfering with your daily functioning, becomes overwhelming, or feels too heavy to bear, consider talking to a mental health professional. They can offer personalized tools to help you navigate your unique journey with guilt. Letting go of guilt, like all difficult things, takes time. It takes time to identify, acknowledge, accept, learn from, and move forward.

10/07/2024

A key part of letting go is understanding where these feelings come from and acknowledging their impact.

09/25/2024

The line between practicing healthy vulnerability and trauma dumping can be thin, but that does not mean you should stop sharing your story! Be wise and consider your story valuable to be shared with careful consideration.  The next time you want to talk about the details of your trauma with others, remember to make it a conversation.

09/23/2024

Every part of your story is so important, and I encourage you to share and process it with others! However, it’s important to keep in mind that not everyone is ready to receive the impact of your story. While there are some that might find your story inspiring, others may not be emotionally equipped to hear about it.

09/19/2024

In simple terms, trauma dumping is sharing your trauma without consent. While your trauma is very crucial to who you are as a person, it’s also a part of your story that wreaked havoc and brought significant distress in your life. And so, it’s important to be mindful that that part doesn’t do more damage to the people around you.

09/16/2024

Generational trauma is older than you and is literally encoded in your DNA. Be patient and gentle with yourself as you start your journey. These questions about history and family lore are vital to developing your knowledge of your ancestral heritage and the ways that their stories are impacting your own.