06/01/2018
11/6/14
Dear [Participant],
Ever since I started visiting you on our Tuesdays with Senior Center at Home you have become such a meaningful part of my life. I've looked forward to those mornings with you because I knew I'd learn something new and experience something wonderful every time. You've taught me so much over these past few years. We've covered so many topics including Cooking, Gardening, Wine, Music: Richard Tucker, Science: Richard Feynman, Painting, Reading, Traveling, Family/Relationships, History, and more.
You are a truly righteous man. And I look up to you greatly. The way you treat others with kindness is inspiring. You once told me that you always try to have something good to say. And you definitely have always greeted me with a smile.
After every visit, you'd walk me to the door, give me a peck on the cheek, say "Stay as nice and as beautiful as you are", and then watch as I'd pull out of the driveway, wave to you and head up the street. (All the while I'd be smiling from ear to ear). You, sir, are a true gentleman. Thank you.
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[On most occasions I would write a Dear Loved One letter to my Participant’s family after he/she had passed. But (off work hours) I was able to visit this Participant while he was on hospice at a nursing home. I decided to write the letter to Him while he was weak but coherent so he could know the great impact he had on me.
After he read this letter I said Shalom and pecked his forehead. I knew it would be one of our last visits.]
11/19/14
Message from his daughter that he had passed—
“Peaceful and rather beautiful.
Thank you for efforts and trying to make life interesting. He looked forward to every visit.”