 
                                                                                                    10/08/2025
Happy birthday to the girl who truly taught me childbirth, parenting and true LOVE. I still love that first photo showing the true relief after so much work in my 36 hour labor and all the anticipation and so many months of pregnancy and so much unknown! Transition. It’s a word we use a lot when we educate about childbirth (8-10cm and the most intense but usually shortest part of labor btwn dilation and pushing!). But now that I’m transitioning from mom with kid at home to mom w kid in college…well that’s another whole experience!! How I went from having a baby to have an 18 year old is impossible to fathom!! There will be moments in parenting of love, rage, joy, pain, confusion, excitement and endless more emotions. Labor is often our first real true teacher that we can’t control much in this world, so if I can share one bit of advice, the thing you can control is who you choose to support you during labor, who will assist with delivering your baby, where you will give birth, who will be your doula… so grateful i chose my midwife (who teaches our birth classes) and was my doula, to the OB who partnered with my midwife and said to me, I hope never to meet you again…I’m a surgeon and you don’t need me UNLESS you need me (his mom and grandma were both midwives so he truly understood the collaborative care model)…to her dad who sat behind me while I used the squat bar to effectively push (even with an epidural I was able to do many positions for pushing…with an asynclitic head (where my daughters head was slightly tipped to the side, changing positions and trying everything under the sun was critical to help get her out and in so happy the nursing staff was so helpful to rotate me thru so many positions….im also so grateful for my birth education from my friend who invited me to her birth and changed my life by exposing me to what birth could be like to who taught me my first doula training and opened me up to even more….anyway, if you are still reading I appreciate you being here! Happy birthday to my girl and happy birth day to me. And happy birthing day to all the parents who are in labor right now and soon to be.
 
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                         
   
   
   
   
     
   
   
  