
10/22/2021
My violets, that before the pandemic lived in my office, are loving their new home. Has anything positive come out of the quarantine for you?
When you say “I Do” you focus on who, and how, you are in your life…what works and what doesn?
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When we say “I DO” we are making a choice, a commitment to cherish the person standing before us. What if that person was you?
How would your life be different if you loved, honored and cherished yourself? Saying I Do to You is a practice of noticing you, taking time to be curious about what makes you, YOU. It is compassionately understanding you. Being genuinely interested in you. Imagine getting to know yourself in the same way you get to know a love interest. This is Saying I Do to You.
When we practice Saying I Do we focus on who and how we are…what works in our lives and what doesn’t. We have the power to make choices to keep what we like and let go of the rest. This is a non-judgmental exploration, accepting our unloved parts as gently as our loved parts. Saying I Do to You is NOT a method of self-improvement (because you are already good enough! Trust me on this. You are!) It is a practice of self-acceptance. Saying I Do to You is NOT being selfish! We are often concerned that if we love ourselves first, we won’t love others enough. Actually, that couldn’t be further from the truth. Research tells us that we have enough love to go around; that self-compassionate increases compassion to others.
When you Say I Do to You, you begin to NOTICE you in a new way. Practicing ACCEPTance in who you meet builds TRUST in yourself. And ultimately, when we trust ourselves with ourselves, we are home.