Rewire4Success

05/23/2025

If you’re like most women who have been betrayed by their partner’s p**n use or escalated infidelity, you’re probably wondering on a daily basis…

“Is he really going to change? Or am I sacrificing my own well-being and mental health by staying?”

You’re probably sick and tired of:

✅ Constantly wishing you had more clarity on what he’s doing or SHOULD be doing to overcome this
✅ Being afraid you’re just waiting for the next betrayal
✅ Not feeling confident about what boundaries to set
✅ Suppressing your own emotional needs and pain to keep the peace

Yet, you’re still fighting for your relationship because he’s willing to go to therapy, attempts to have conversations with you (though they never seem to go the way either of you want them to), and he tells you that he still loves you.

We get it. We’re Rick and Katie Kies. A couple who has been through this, and knows what it’s like to go through years of pain, betrayal, lies, and deception…

…as well as honesty, vulnerability, transparency, maturity, growth and healing.

As a couple, we desperately searched for answers to overcome my husband’s 25 year p**n addiction he brought into our relationship—consulting therapists, joining support groups, and nightly conversations yet still feeling completely uncertain of whether or not we were on the right trajectory.

That’s why once we finally got on the other side of this, we decided to create a comprehensive system to help other couples do it too. Drawing from our own journey, other experts in neuroscience and psychology, and our hired staff's professional experience, we now help couples have a structured and guided path through p**n addiction recovery, offering proven support for lasting healing.

The first couple to ever go through our system said it best:

“You saved our relationship. We don’t know what we would have done without you.”

Finally, a couples-centered approach to recovery that can hold and have compassion for both sides of this difficult experience.

Click below to join our free group and begin a journey toward true healing and recovery:

https://www.facebook.com/groups/couplesovercomingaddiction

05/22/2025

If you’re like most women who have been betrayed by their partner’s p**n use or escalated infidelity, you’re probably wondering on a daily basis…

“Is he really going to change? Or am I sacrificing my own well-being and mental health by staying?”

You’re probably sick and tired of:

✅ Constantly wishing you had more clarity on what he’s doing or SHOULD be doing to overcome this
✅ Being afraid you’re just waiting for the next betrayal
✅ Not feeling confident about what boundaries to set
✅ Suppressing your own emotional needs and pain to keep the peace

Yet, you’re still fighting for your relationship because he’s willing to go to therapy, attempts to have conversations with you (though they never seem to go the way either of you want them to), and he tells you that he still loves you.

We get it. We’re Rick and Katie Kies. A couple who has been through this, and knows what it’s like to go through years of pain, betrayal, lies, and deception…

…as well as honesty, vulnerability, transparency, maturity, growth and healing.

As a couple, we desperately searched for answers to overcome my husband’s 25 year p**n addiction he brought into our relationship—consulting therapists, joining support groups, and nightly conversations yet still feeling completely uncertain of whether or not we were on the right trajectory.

That’s why once we finally got on the other side of this, we decided to create a comprehensive system to help other couples do it too. Drawing from our own journey, other experts in neuroscience and psychology, and our hired staff's professional experience, we now help couples have a structured and guided path through p**n addiction recovery, offering proven support for lasting healing.

The first couple to ever go through our system said it best:

“You saved our relationship. We don’t know what we would have done without you.”

Finally, a couples-centered approach to recovery that can hold and have compassion for both sides of this difficult experience.

Click below to take our Couples Recovery Assessment to see where you and your partner are currently at in this process.

https://www.rewire4success.life/couples-assessment

02/19/2025

Things that are supposed to last a life time cannot be a quick fix.

10/19/2024

10/18/2024

We’ve got something special happening for all of our group members and coaching clients this week.

If you’ve ever wished that you could have unfiltered truths from a successfully recovered p**n addict… this will be a big week for you.

We just put together a free webinar event, ‘Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict’ for women and their partners who are looking for answers to help them transform their relationship after experiencing the detrimental effects of p**n addiction.

As we are approaching the end to another year, we’ve noticed so many couples who began the year hoping to be in a much better place, but who aren't feeling like they have any more answers now than they did then.

This is understandably creating feelings of overwhelm for both partners as they feel they are both running as hard as they can... only to find themselves in a hamster wheel.

Another discovery, another relapse, another trauma to pile on top of the others that they also didn't expect to happen.

Sadly, many couples we've checked in with after several months are no longer together.

So if you’re currently banging your head against the wall, feeling like something has to change or else you just can't do this, then let's help you get some relief by answering some of those questions that you haven't been able to figure out on your own yet.

This why we're hosting this special webinar, and click here to know how to register for free:

https://www.rewire4success.life/pl/2148583283

We're going to answer as many questions as we can in the 2 hours we've set aside for this event.

If you haven't already given us your questions in response to the post we made earlier in this group, you can leave your question at the bottom of this post.

Our live webinar event will be unique because not only is it the first we've hosted outside of our single topic weekly live talks..... but it will give couples an idea of what it is like to work close enough with us to get a taste of what we teach inside our private groups and program curriculum.

The same insights we teach our clients to help them transform their relationship and build the next 20, 30 and 40+ years together.

“Rewire4Success Webinar Event: Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict" is happening Saturday, October 26, 2024 @ 5:00PM PST | 8:00 PM EST.

We want to show you behind the scenes what it really took for Rick to transform himself from being a 25 year p**n addict who had destroyed every past relationship, to a man who now takes pride every day in competing for the title of being "The Most Faithful Man In The World".

So instead of not knowing that there are pieces to your recovery puzzle that are still missing, instead we'll help you see a complete picture (which is always a lot less frustrating than trying to put together a puzzle without one.)
Attend our live “Q&A With a 25 Year Former P**n Addict” next Saturday, the 26th to get your questions answered.

✅ To save your seat for that Saturday...

[Click here to register: https://www.rewire4success.life/pl/2148583283]

Once you register, we’ll email you the private zoom link to attend and a button to save it to your calendar.

Save that link and tap it next Saturday night to tune in live.

We'll see you there.

- Katie

10/10/2024

"A man who lies to himself, and believes his own lies becomes unable to recognize truth, either in himself or in anyone else, and he ends up losing respect for himself and for others. When he has no respect for anyone, he can no longer love, and, in order to divert himself, having no love in him, he yields to his impulses, indulges in the lowest forms of pleasure, and behaves in the end like an animal. And it all comes from lying - lying to others and to yourself."

This quote is heartbreaking because I've seen it first hand.

But I've also seen it turn around first hand.

There is hope if he is willing to let his ego go, step out into that unknown and trust that he can be truly known and still acceptable as a valid human.

What he needs is: hope, help and an example to show him what's possible...

And enough pain to no longer enable him to stay the same. (boundaries)

10/10/2024

Articulating your emotions is not "reacting emotionally".
It's emotional maturity.

10/05/2024

For those who think, "maybe I'm just being too sensitive...?"

1. It’s not paranoia over sensitivity or neuroticism when there’s precedent.

2. If a partner were to say that to you it would be invalidating and gaslighting. A pattern of saying statements liked that would be abuse.

Your thoughts, feelings, concerns, bids for his interest in you are all valid. You do not have to minimize them.

If it is suspicious to YOU then it is suspicious. If it is painful to you than it is painful.

Your valid human emotions matter.

08/08/2024

Narcissist traits and p**n addiction are connected. DM if you’d like a resource on how.

07/27/2024

Join Our Free Group Here:

http://www.couplesovercomingp**naddiction.com

We help couples overcome the effects of p**nography addiction & rebuild a truly monogamous relationship.

You don't have to do this alone, and there is hope to build the relationship you've always wanted.

We can help show you how.

We'll see you inside the group.

Rick and Katie