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LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL! Look at your life today and focus on those things that are truly beautiful! Can you think of something?

What are you afraid of? Reach out to friends or join new groups to ensure you DON'T FEED THE FEARS!

Do you have questions or need resources for planning a funeral or dealing with grief? We are here to help. http://bit.ly/1LJH0e3

"Time is our most precious asset; we should invest it wisely." - Michael Levy

In honor of Mend a Broken Heart Month, we want to bring awareness to the countless children who are being abused daily.

February is Mend a Broken Heart Month! Each year, nearly 300,000 children are rescued from abuse and neglect and must enter foster care. Frequently, these children arrive for care empty-handed and broken-hearted. Mend a Broken Heart Month is a yearly observance in support of these children in need. We encourage you to help these children by donating the $25 necessary to get each My Stuff Bag into their hands. Thank you for your support! http://www.mystuffbags.org/donate-funds-now/

IT'S A FACT! President Andrew Jackson's pet parrot had to be removed from his funeral for shouting obscenities at the mourners.

Dear Abby on Photos at Funerals | A Good Goodbye ~ Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die

Dear Abby on taking photos at funerals - You should ask first! http://ow.ly/kC6tu

Dear Abby on Photos at Funerals | A Good Goodbye ~ Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die A recent Dear Abby column dished some good funeral etiquette advice on the question of taking pictures at funerals. DEAR ABBY: What is proper etiquette for someone who takes pictures at a funeral? I am a recent widow who received a package from an out-of-town relative. In it were several envelopes for my family. One of them was for my sister, who lives 40 miles away. I gave my sister a call and told her it looked like it contained a stack of pictures. She said I should go ahead and open it. Inside were photos taken at my husband's funeral -- pictures of the funeral home, inside the church, the casket, and some of me and my daughter sitting at the gravesite. Abby, it was like going to the funeral all over again! The latter were particularly disturbing. To me, it felt like voyeurism. Why would someone take pictures of such a sad event? I hope you print this and tell me and others what your opinion is so they may heed your advice -- particularly my in-laws. -- GRIEVING WIDOW IN INDIANA

Dealing With Family Heirlooms - CarePages.com

The often painful process of figuring out who gets what after someone dies can be easier if you plan ahead. Check out this article for some tips on how to do so: http://bit.ly/S216DW

Dealing With Family Heirlooms - CarePages.com Keeping family heirlooms may feel like a way to hold on to a loved one who’s deceased. But what do you do when your family can’t decide who gets them?

12 Resources Every Caregiver Should Know About - AARP

Here are 12 resources every caregiver should know about: http://ow.ly/kEDlV Do you know of any other resources that are helpful?

12 Resources Every Caregiver Should Know About - AARP Bookmark this page of key resources to support you in your caregiving role or print copies for your home and office.

Green burial, also known as natural burial, is becoming an increasingly popular disposition option. As a method of burial which uses no chemicals, preserves the natural landscape, and buries the body simply, it is appealing to those who are environmentally-conscious. What questions do you have about these options?

Your worries, complaints, anger, and resentment cast a dark fog on the world that appears in front of you. That prevents you from seeing all the good things already available. Once you clear the fog, what will you see?

Get up and go on an adventure this week! Where will your journey take you?

Happy Valentines Day! Do you have a special Valentines in your life? Share photos with us and tell us how you will be spending this day.

How to Do it All: How to Take Care of Yourself and Make Your Life Better

At some point trying to do it all catches up with us. It's hard to know when to stop and take a breath! Maybe you can learn a lesson or two from this article on how to take a moment for yourself: http://bit.ly/1bXVbOb

How to Do it All: How to Take Care of Yourself and Make Your Life Better How does a busy woman do it all, fit it all in, create the me-time she craves, and take good care of herself?

"Thoughts matter, choose well." -Cheryl Richardson. SHARE with us a good thought you've had today!

: "seize the opportunity to honor the too-often neglected accomplishments of black Americans in every area of endeavor throughout our history." President Gerald Ford 1976

Release any so called regrets about your departed loved one and yourself. You cannot hold onto the past and try to move forward. Finish this sentence: One thing I can do to begin this process is ___________.

Grief can be a lonely road, but writing & telling your story can help in your healing. This article can help you get started: http://bit.ly/1cyVo7e

Happiness: What brings you happiness? What types of activities, ideas, and people bring you joy? http://bit.ly/1cyUtnd

Children can feel grief from loss as early as four to six months old. Like adults, children may respond to grief with humor, behavioral issues, and sleep problems. Be patient and tolerant, and encourage them to share their thoughts.

"Selfishness, control, and fear will break almost any relationship. Generosity, freedom, and love will create the most beautiful relationship: an ongoing romance." - Don Miguel Ruiz. How do you keep your relationship with your loved one alive?

If your emotions seem out of control don’t hesitate to talk to a therapist. Many people need help adjusting to the loss of a loved one.

Research shows that people who have experienced traumatic or difficult life events have received therapeutic benefit from regular writing. Does journaling help you? Here are some basic tips for journal writing: http://bit.ly/1exVEGT

SUNDAY CAREGIVER TIP: Let's get that glass half full. Rather than lament about the things that trouble you, focus on the treasures in your life for which you are grateful. One thing that you are grateful for is _______________.

We get so wrapped up in our day that we might take many blessings for granted. Learn how to start being thankful for the small things by reading this article: http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/07/20/be-grateful-for-the-small-things/

On days like Mother’s day, Father's day, Christmas, a birthday or an anniversary it makes it a little bit harder to deal with a loved ones death. That specific date can bring back joyous, yet painful memories. Acknowledging the deceased on these days is important! Go ahead and share your heart with a loved one or family member.

"There is no distance too far between friends, for friendship gives wings to the heart." - Kathy Kay Benudiz

Grief affects every aspect of our lives, including the workplace. What kind of support have you experienced at work during your time of loss?

Do you keep in touch with your friends no matter the distance? "There is no distance too far between friends, for friendship gives wings to the heart." - Kathy Kay

SATURDAY CAREGIVER TIP: Share your physical discomforts with your care recipient and physicians. Speak up if you don't feel well. If you keep it to yourself, a potentially serious problem can get even worse.

Grief is the natural reaction to losing a loved one — grieving is also the road to healing from a loss. The funeral helps facilitate this process. It helps loved ones face the reality of the loss, helps them to say good-bye, and reestablish a support network.

It's a good idea to leave your negativity at the door. Staying positive makes your day and those around you so much better! :)

Resilience or the ability to bounce back from adversity is important to succeed in life. An important part of resilience is having the support of others. Who supports you when the going gets tough?

SUNDAY CAREGIVER TIP: Get outside! As caregivers, we tend to stay near our care recipient a great deal, which means being indoors. Try to find time, maybe while your loved one is sleeping, to get outdoors for a little bit. Sit in a chair, stare at the clouds, feel the sun in your face. It truly reminds you that you are alive and vibrant.

"The only thing we never get enough of is love." -Unknown