04/17/2025
Let’s talk about something that’s rarely spoken about with honesty or tenderness…
Finishing too quickly during intimacy.
For many men this is a secret burden laced with frustration, embarrassment, even shame.
And yet… it’s incredibly common.
Not because something is wrong with you.
But because your body was conditioned that way.
From a young age, most boys discover their pleasure in hiding.
Rushing before someone walks in.
Trying not to get caught.
So your nervous system learns:
= urgency
Pleasure = tension
Orgazm = the goal
Fast forward into adulthood…that early wiring hasn’t disappeared.
It’s just became deeply embedded.
Your body has mastered the pattern it was taught—
Go fast.
Release quickly.
Don’t linger.
But here’s the truth most men have never been told:
This isn’t a control issue…It’s a relaxation issue.
A presence issue.
A nervous system pattern.
And the beautiful news is, this can be retrained.
In my private Ta**ra sessions—both online and in person—I work with men to slow down, soften, and completely redefine their relationship to and pleasure.
Not through pressure or performance.
But through awareness, sensation, and deep nervous system recalibration.
This is not about performance.
It’s about liberation.
Learning to stay with pleasure.
To feel more—not less.
To expand your capacity for sensation, intimacy, and choice.
If this speaks to you—
You’re not broken.
You’re not alone.
And you are safe to reach out.
Send me the word “Ta**ra” and I’ll share how we can begin ❣️❣️
