Divinely Divorced

05/21/2025

Food for thought!

When you have the urge to control a woman, remember who & what we are at our core. We become someone different when we are used, abused, taken for granted & discarded. The choice is yours who you want in front of you. A loving being or one that operates from pain & suffering. We care how we’re treated. The days of us putting up with it are becoming few & far between. Believe me when I say WE WON’T GO BACK!

01/21/2025

When I think about my evolution as a human, one of the most profound, life changing experiences I had that propelled me in my growth & development was facing my heartbreak. As a child that endured significant trauma & then watching my husband give his life over to alcohol & pills & having no control over any of it, I hit bottom. My grief was insurmountable & it took years of therapy & healing to teach me to believe in myself & that I didn’t cause these things to happen. 🌺

Once that belief took root my path became very clear. I have worked in the helping field ever since. I subscribe to the notion that people have a responsibility to pay it forward when they have gone through such a transformation & that’s what I have strived to do. I put myself back to school to learn everything I could about mental health & the change process. I was unique in that only about 1% of the population has achieved what I have. 🌺

This does not impress me, however! You know what does impress me? All the people I have worked with over the years who have transformed their own lives. I cannot emphasize enough the profound experiences I have had witnessing this change. I consider myself blessed beyond words to do what I do & that is working with people who put their trust in me. I never take this for granted. I wish you the courage to claim your life in all its glory. 🌺

Fear can be debilitating & it can block us from becoming our true, authentic selves. No matter what we’ve been through, it does not have to be this way. Working with someone who helps you see what you are capable of can help you step into the beautiful, meaningful life you were always meant to have. YOU ARE INDEED WORTH IT! If you’re ready to take that brave step, click the link in the bio! 🌺

01/21/2025

When you have the urge to control a woman, remember who & what we are at our core. We become someone different when we are used, abused, taken for granted & discarded. The choice is yours who you want in front of you. A loving being or one that operates from pain & suffering. We care how we’re treated. The days of us putting up with it are becoming few & far between. Believe me when I say WE WON’T GO BACK!

12/31/2023

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12/25/2023

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12/16/2023

Happy Saturday! ♥️💚♥️💚♥️

11/14/2023

Happy Tuesday from Dr. Carol. 🌺 I hope you’re all doing well or as well as you can be in this chaotic world. It’s been an awhile since I’ve posted a message & wanted to express gratitude 🙏. I don’t know about you but sometimes gratitude eludes me when I see all the death & destruction that is being levied on the Middle East. I feel like I’m in a perpetual state of grief & have been for many years now. When I think about gratitude though, it really does lift my spirits. It reminds me how far I’ve evolved & learned about taking much better care of myself after giving so much to others. If you knew my story you’d understand. My daughter is encouraging me to write a book & I’m seriously considering it. It is an inspirational story of resilience, strength, smarts, & empathy. When I think about the awful things that I’ve been through, I must also remember the joys. There are so many. My kids being the biggest joy of my life & when I see them struggling, I want to move mountains to lessen their suffering but know that, as I had to learn to pick myself up, they too must learn & I must let them. When I feel angry with my kids, I think of my mom & think how many times she must have felt furious with me because of my decisions. The thing is we all learn at different paces. One size does not fit all. What doesn’t ever change is the unconditional love that my heart holds even when steam is coming out of my ears. That steam signifies a relationship with all of its ups & down. I’ve gotten better at channeling my anger for the greater good & making change where I can. Our capacity to love is boundless. People in power have forgotten this very important life lesson. Let us help them remember! In solidarity! ♥️

11/02/2023

"On my flight from San Diego to Nashville today, sitting in the row next to me was a 96 year old woman who hasn’t flown in 15 years.

For her birthday she wanted to go to Kansas City to see her family but she was scared of flying.

She asked for this man’s hand during takeoff and then hugged him again when experiencing turbulence.

This gentleman I should say, gladly took her hand, let her hold onto him, calmed her by talking to her and explaining everything that was happening, and simply was that stranger there for her.

He knew just what to do the entire flight to help.

He helped her stand up to go to the restroom and watched her carefully walk down the aisle.

It made me smile the whole flight as he comforted her.

This man was her flight angel.

He held her bag, helped her get off the plane and into the wheelchair, and when she got confused wondering where her daughter went (she called her her sister), he stayed with her until she caught up with her daughter who got separated from her.

I walked away sobbing happy tears being so thankful for people like this wonderful human.

She was so grateful that she wanted him to have her flight pretzels. 😇

Hats off to you sir, for your kind heart and your compassion toward someone whom you’ve never met. I have never been so touched on a flight before.

This truly made my week. 💜”

Credit: Megan Ashley

09/27/2023

Happy Monday ✨

07/26/2023

🌺My affirmation: I will let go of my worries & welcome opportunities & blessings! 🌺 What’s yours?

07/26/2023

My affirmation: I let go of my worries & welcome opportunities & blessings 🌹. What’s yours?

07/15/2023