10/27/2025
Union Embodied
True union begins the moment you stop seeking it outside yourself.
It is not found in words, promises, attention or approval.
It is realized in the stillness of living in alignment with your own soul.
Many call union divine when it hurts in all the familiar places.
They confuse activation for awakening,
pain for passion and intensity for destiny.
The spiritual community calls it twin flame energy.
Psychology calls it trauma bonding…
two unhealed inner children replaying the same abandonment story and calling it sacred.
It’s limerence at best…
placing the other on a pedestal and confusing
an illusion for a cosmic connection.
Yes, twin flames can be real,
but not in the romantic sense people imagine.
They are real as catalysts, not as fairy tales.
They appear to burn away everything that isn’t love until you realize the union was never between two people,
but between your soul and Source.
When Shakti and Shiva meet within,
you stop searching for mirrors in the outer world.
You become your own reflection…
sovereign, whole and self-defined.
What you once called love and acceptance
was the echo of your own divinity
calling itself home but through another’s eyes.
When that truth lands,
the chase ends and peace begins.
The remnants of old patterns will try to pull you back,
testing whether you crave validation more than freedom.
But every time you choose peace over pursuit,
your frequency rises.
You reclaim the energy you once poured
into convincing someone to recognize your worth or see things the way you do.
Walk away gracefully.
This is energetic sovereignty.
When your essence no longer bends
to the hunger of those who only want a taste of your light but never nourish your soul.
When you no longer seek outside of yourself, you become whole.
And wholeness attracts only what resonates in authentic reciprocity.
You are no longer waiting to be completed or unlocked when you already hold the key.
You are the flame.
And you can no longer be controlled
by those who diminish your light.
©️ October 27, 2025
Jenni Alyssa 🦋 Integrative Healing ™️
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