03/13/2026
Betrayal can deeply affect our emotional and physical health—but it’s often misunderstood. It can shake our sense of safety, trust, and identity, leaving many people feeling stuck in therapy or in their healing journey.
In the latest episode of the What If It’s Not Depression? podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Debi Silber, PhD, founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and an internationally recognized expert in betrayal recovery.
Dr. Silber’s groundbreaking research uncovered new insights into betrayal trauma and led to the development of a structured model for healing. What makes her work especially powerful is that her research grew from her own personal experience with betrayal, inspiring her to help others move from survival to transformation.
In this conversation, we explore why betrayal affects the mind and body differently from other forms of trauma—and why many people remain stuck for years without the right framework for healing.
In this episode, we discuss:
• What betrayal really is and why it impacts us so deeply
• Where to begin when reestablishing trust after betrayal
• The 5 stages of betrayal and how healing progresses
• What recovery can look like after long-term betrayal
• How healing may differ for those who have experienced repeated betrayals
🎧 Watch or listen to the full episode: https://fxnmind.com/wiind-podcast-episode-110-how-to-get-yourself-unstuck-on-your-healing-journey-with-dr-debi-silber/
If you find this conversation helpful, you’ll be glad to know that many of the insights and frameworks we discuss are explored in even greater depth in Dr. Silber’s new book, Unstuck.
In the book, she explains the research-backed process of moving from survival after betrayal to transformation and healing. Learn more: https://thepbtinstitute.com/unstuck/. You can also explore her other books on betrayal recovery here:
https://thepbtinstitute.com/store/
Connect with Dr. Debi Silber
✅ Website: www.thepbtinstitute.com
✅ Facebook: Debi Silber - Inspire, Empower, Transform.
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Betrayal can impact our mental health, relationships, and even our physical well-being. Understanding the stages of betrayal recovery can help people realize that feeling stuck is not a personal failure—it often means the right framework for healing hasn’t been applied yet. My hope is that this conversation brings clarity, validation, and practical guidance to anyone navigating the difficult path of rebuilding trust and reclaiming their well-being.