01/15/2026
Your brain is lying to you about what will make you happy. 🧠
Research on "Social Prediction Error" shows we usually assume talking to people will be draining. In reality, we almost always feel a massive mood boost afterward.
Here is how to work with your brain, not against it:
The 30-Minute Rule: Go to the event for just 30 minutes. Your brain is likely underestimating the payoff.
Peak-End Rule: End your day with one positive thing—a song or a short walk—to reshape your memory of the whole day.
Adult Play: Do something "useless" just for fun. It resets your nervous system.
Happiness isn't a destination; it's a set of skills you can practice.
What is one small thing that brought you "delight" today?
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Source: The Science of Well-Being (Yale)