Katrina Lane LPC, LMFT

Katrina Lane LPC, LMFT Counseling and mental health

Katrina Lane is a Licensed Professional Counselor (Supervisor) and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist providing mental health services to individuals, couples, and families. She has been providing services since 1990 for a variety of issues including depression, abuse, anxiety, relationship issues, and variety of other mental health difficulties.

12/30/2015
07/20/2014

Are you reactive or proactive? Why does it make a difference? When you are reactive, what you do is in response to what others do. You are not in control of your life. You feel good or bad depending on the actions of others. You may feel angry, mistreated, resentful, slighted, etc. When you are proactive you make your choices based on what you think is the right thing to do. The behavior of others is not your concern. You love others because you love them, not because they love you.

Although this is not the context, reactive and proactive concepts and assist in weight loss goals. If you apply this to weight loss you are choosing to eat what is right for your body, not what others eat or what others tell you you need to eat or to do. Being proactive can reduce your stress and reduce feelings of depression, anger, or loneliness that often trigger eating. Being proactive means you choose to have healthy foods around you, and you eat only what is healthy for you, and not what you are pressured to eat out of being polite or social. You find a way to be polite and social while honoring what you need to do for you.

07/16/2014

After a few weeks you may feel you are making all these changes and getting no results. At least it is what I am feeling. Even though a couple of pounds is really results, it does not feel like it. I have to remember that I cannot sustain a permanent weight loss of more than 5 pounds a month. I decided that for me 5 pounds a month is successful. There were times it was more and times it was less. That seems too slow for me, and I don't like it but then I remember that 50 pounds a year is a lot of weight and 50 pounds a year is 5 pounds a month with December and some time off for holidays and vacations. I only try to maintain from Thanksgiving to Jan 1 and when I am out of town.

Another important tip is to identify a healthy version of everything you like. Since I am an ice cream addict, I have to put in my food plan things to make me feel like I had ice cream every day. I use ice drinks such as fruit, whey, and ice blended, or even ice and lime or lemon. I also eat non-fat unsweetened greek yogurt (22g protein, 9 g carbohydrates). These may not work for you and you may not be an ice cream addict. The point is to identify what you really want and find how to satisfy that desire in a healthy sustainable way. You can't five up what you really like.

One of the most important changes for weight loss is getting enough water. I encourage you to do some research on hydration and why you need it. Also It has helped a lot to read labels and to check nutrition whenever possible if you go out to eat. The information may surprise you and may prevent you from choosing a high calorie item because you think it is healthier than what you really want. It's OK to sometimes choose what you really want, but if you are choosing a healthy item be sure it is healthy.

07/04/2014

People ask how I lost weight. After yoyo dieting since I was a teen, I decided never to diet again. I decided about 14 years ago that I needed to loose weight but I was going to do it with lifestyle changes. I spent a lot of time working on motivation and how to do it. Finally I realized the impact on my health and became motivated to improve my health and the quality of my life. That has been my key motivation that allows me to do it. If you want to loose weight and keep it off, you must have sustainable motivation. When it becomes more important to you than what you are eating and doing at the moment, it will be something you can do and sustain.

When I want to eat something I decide, "Is that something my body really needs or do I want it? Do I want that or do I want to loose weight and have a healthy body?" I choose every time I eat or do not eat. I add do not eat, because skipping meals is just the same. It is often not healthy because it can make you really hungry and make you eat a lot at the next meal. When I eat a lot, I start wanting to eat more at a meal, and then it takes more food to satisfy me. After a while I eat more total.

In the beginning I had to regulate how much I ate at a meal. But just for a short time till I got use to smaller portions. Then it was easy. I personally find that a few (1-3) days of mostly a liquid diet, with small supplemental food all day, really helps me. It gets me use to small portions. I eat veggies and drink protein and fruit low cal shakes, and maybe eat a little protein. Personally I love to dip veggies and munch on cold shrimp with cocktail sauce or a little cheese. I may also have some salad with berries, nuts, colorful peppers, squash, tomatoes, or whatever.

My first focus is on drinking plenty of water and eating healthy vegetables and lean meat. I logged everything into an app that shows nutrition and worked on getting increased nutrition and decreased calories and a balanced diet. I think a balanced diet is very important.

02/26/2011

My office re-opened Feb 10 following the ice storm.

02/09/2011

My office is closed today Wednesday, Feb 9, however I will open on an individual basis by appointment. My policy is that when roads are icy, no notice is required by clients. If you do want to come, and can do so safely, please call and confirm, and I will open for you.

05/28/2010

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