hayden_doeshair, 414 W Broad St (2026)

13/05/2024

My dear friend, Devin Folkins has been missing for about a week now. He is on the spectrum and has mental health struggles that leaves his family believing that he may be scared, disoriented, and possibly in danger.

There has been a missing persons report, but we know that the law isn’t super reliable all the time. with Devin having been involved in an at fault accident prior to his disappearance, the missing persons report is only available to police at this time.

I am heading to the site now with another witchy friend to try and pull any collective info from the site that I can, as clearly one or two people cannot cover enough ground.

But, if you or anyone you know is looking for a collective activity to embark on, we need a search party to really cover some area and find Devin. He is doing his best, and has been for so long. I’m going to do my best to find him and bring his family and his spirit peace as he has done for me many many times.

21/09/2023

Y’all have been asking when the next one is, so here’s what you’ve been waiting for!

I am hosting Conscious Confidence at on October 8th from 11-3, and I am so excited to see what the nature of this space brings to an already special workshop.

We will be able to host 14 folks this go round! The Eventbrite link will go live on Sunday to give y’all time to reserve your tickets!

This is an excellent opportunity for you if you’ve been experiencing intense burnout of inability to relax after a long day behind the chair. However, I do want to note that while this class is not reserved for licensed cosmetologists, it will be catered to the hair and beauty industry.

Send me a DM if you’d like to get added to my waitlist to get your ticket before they go live Sunday 9/24 at 11:00am!

11/09/2023

****TW: Death, religious trauma, tragic accidents****

While at first glance, this could seem like a post proclaiming radical Christianity, it is far from it.

Like many I grew up in the strongholds of religious fear and conditioning, but it was rather confusing because there was one person that made it easy for wrap my head around the beauty he was able to see within something that had shown me so much hypocrisy in my life.

The last time that I spoke to my father was 14 years ago today. I am so lucky I am a rule breaker or I wouldn’t have had my phone in the stadium during our pep rally. I’m so glad I answered, but sad that I told him that night and we would have to try again when I wasn’t so busy with work. I was 15.

I wonder if something would have changed if I had been more available to him that night, or if there is anything I can do to keep the same thing from happening to someone else. I can be a victim of blaming myself from time to time, but that doesn’t help me heal. I’m learning, slowly, gently.

Isaiah 40:31 is my father’s favorite bible verse. I have it tattooed on my right shoulder blade. I have it to remember him. I remember my life before his body left this earth.

It’s wild to think that at 30 years old I’ve lived almost half of my life without my father and soon I’ll have lived more life without than I knew with him.

I am no longer Christian, but like many things I don’t practice I respect the intention and message that can be found in scripture.

To me this verse says:

“Believe in yourself, but always be open, and you’ll prevail and have the means to do so.”

Christians have a really easy time telling you to set your sights on God, but don’t see their opportunity to show you something bigger by action vs demand.

When I was outed by the youth pastor in my church, it was my bible thumping father who looked my household in the face and told them enough was enough. He then turned to me and said “you know who you are, and you know God loves you regardless of what that means”.

Do yourself a favor and believe in yourself and advocate so fiercely that everyone else is inspired to do the same!

Thank you daddy❤️

23/06/2023

🩷Funky pink lows for Kathy done with love🩷

I love the way that redheads go grey. It’s always so fascinating to me that tiny little red hairs sprinkled throughout white hairs created the most beautiful platinum👏

This was truly a discovery that was a game changer for me when I began to formulate more complex toners early into my career. It makes me think of the sideways glances I’d get at Hair Cuttery when I would sneak RB (red brown) into my platinum formulas on my chlorine and well water haunted guests.🤢

Anywho! I have so much fun behind the chair with Kathy that I often forget that I’m even at work. It’s truly been a blessing meeting her and to get to meet her family as she influences them to come see me too!🙏

ALSO! Please send me your parent, and if you are a parent, send me your kids, young and old! I want to take care of them! ❤️

03/06/2023

There is nothing like a strong ass profile to really make me passionate about posting again, forreal forreal. 😏

But, y’all just wait until you see some of the photos I’ve been holding out on. I don’t think you’re ready!

This color is NOT fresh but it is done by me. However this cut is the FRESHEST OF FRESH, and like come on! Swoon 💕🤤

Thanks for always trusting me to let my freak flag fly! This was so fun and insist that there be more like this, please!!!

**ghaircut

12/05/2023

Hello! I thought I had posted this but better late than never!

I will be at this market offering mini scalp massage sessions on a donation basis and talking about what we do and offer at !

Come out and support local q***r artist just in time for Mother’s Day!

The event is being hosted at by ! We will be there from 12-4 so come out and enjoy what we have to offer to the community!

See you tomorrow!

***rart ***r ***rs

17/04/2023

Hey there everyone! We’re hosting our first event since opening and it’s one that’s super close to my heart!

We have been wanting to give back to the community in ways that are big and impactful. We believe everyone deserves access to life saving gender affirming clothing and accessories.

We’re excited to host Sunday, April 23rd from 1-4pm to learn all things safety when it comes to chest binding. They’ll also be offering fittings as well as a binder to take home with you.

There is more info available on their page, and we welcome you to register as there are limited spaces available! Head over to their instagram and check out the FAQ that they posted to help any questions you may have!

Can’t wait to see you there!

https://rb.gy/n94nz

Use the link above to register!!!

***rrva ***rs

11/04/2023

I’ve been offering scalp massage for over two years now, but I have been sleeping on sharing anything about it with folks!

Scalp massage is a relaxing and grounding service that can benefit your overall well-being in many ways.

There are 4 benefits mentioned in these slides but those are only a few of the benefits I’ve found since making this service available to the public.

Originally I created this service as a way for people to connect to the benefits of energy work and assisted meditation through a less invasive and more accessible route, but now it’s something I now offer in a broad range of forms.

My favorite thing about scalp massage is that it offers up to an hour of pure escape and doesn’t leave you feeling drunk like a full body massage can.

Tag someone you know that would benefit from a scalp massage and keep scrolling to take advantage of a special offer just for you through the month of April!

09/03/2023

In honor of wanting more opportunities for transformational clients, I have transformed my schedule to allow more space to accommodate new guests! I have opened Wednesday’s in my online booking and I’m looking forward to taking care of you!

Look forward to a more streamlined service menu moving forward. Im so excited to get things more organized around here! We love spring and the change it brings!

07/03/2023

Trigger Warning: transphobia, dilusional thinking, and ableism

The world is scary right now. I want to carve out all of the space for positive messages that I can for all of us right now.

I am always so very inspired by an account that I follow, . They post erasure poems that transform comments rooted in hate and misinformation to reveal a positive, affirming, or additional perspective. I’ve felt led to try my hand at this concept and sadly (but also thankfully) I had an opportunity to do so this past weekend.

I hope that I am able to have the capacity to take on more projects like this. I considered making it more pretty but I decided that anything was more beautiful than the terrible taste that the comment originally left in my mouth.

Do I believe that it’s right to jump down the throats of those who disagree or do not see eye to eye with us, no, but I do believe that I am tired of sitting back while others sprinkle hate all over others well intentioned posts. If you’d like to see the way that I handled the actual conversation and hold me accountable please feel free to reach out to me and I can get you more information and I am happy to hold space for that.

I am not always right. But I am always proud and grateful for the space that I get to take up in this world. I am grateful for the space that my fellow trans community takes up in this world. Thank you thank you thank you ❤️❤️❤️

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26/02/2023

We have amazing and exciting news!

Help us bring our perfect team home by liking and sharing this post ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Hi! We are looking for some folks to fill some positions in our homey little salon in Lakeside. We’re pretty much 10-15 minutes away from anywhere, and your guests can say farewell to parallel parking!

We are looking to hear from

✨Licensed independent stylists or barbers

✨Licensed independent nail artists (no acrylic)

✨Licensed independent facial waxing technicians

Our ideal teammate has experience with gender affirming services or is eager to learn about how their services can make a difference in the lives those in search of gender affirming work.

We have had the absolute gift of offering these services on small scales but are really looking for some people who wanna make a difference in the community to come into our space and help us out!

We have so much to offer the right humans! Reach out to me directly or send your resume to get started.

As Marcel The Shell With Shoes on Says, it takes at least 20 shells to really build a community! We’re looking for some more shells!🐚

17/02/2023

I’m back to the gram after a long hiatus to let you know that I’m booking for March!

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