11/22/2025
🌟 12 Cognitive Distortions — And Why They Don’t Have to Control Your Life 🌟
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So many of us walk through the world believing the stories our minds tell us:
🔸 “Everyone thinks I’m failing.”
🔸 “If something can go wrong, it will.”
🔸 “If I can’t do it perfectly, why even try?”
🔸 “It always ends badly for me.”
These patterns of thinking are called cognitive distortions — automatic mental habits that feel true but are often inaccurate, unhelpful, and painful.
📌 The good news?
Cognitive distortions are learned — which means they can also be unlearned.
At Evolve Mental Wellness, our therapists are trained and certified in evidence-based interventions such as CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), DBT, ACT, and trauma-informed approaches, all designed to help you interrupt these old thought-loops and build healthier, more compassionate, more realistic patterns.
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🧠 What does “working on cognitive distortions” look like in therapy?
Examples 👇
💭 “Mind Reading”:
“I know they’re disappointed in me.”
→ In therapy: Learning how to check assumptions instead of believing thoughts as facts.
💭 “Catastrophizing”:
“This one thing went wrong — everything is ruined.”
→ In therapy: Building emotional regulation + expanding perspective.
💭 “Labeling”:
“I messed up” → “I’m a failure.”
→ In therapy: Separating identity from momentary experiences.
💭 “Should Thinking”:
“I should be better by now.”
→ In therapy: Replacing self-criticism with self-support and realistic expectations.
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🔑 3 Takeaways You Can Start Right Now
Try this the next time your thoughts spiral:
1️⃣ Pause and identify the distortion.
Name it — “Oh, this is catastrophizing” or “This is emotional reasoning.”
Awareness interrupts autopilot.
2️⃣ Ask: “Is there another possible explanation?”
Even if your brain says no, ask the question anyway.
3️⃣ Talk to yourself the way you’d talk to someone you love.
If you wouldn’t say it to them, don’t say it to yourself.
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🔥 The thoughts in your head are not facts.
They are habits — and habits can change.
If you’re tired of battling your own mind, you don’t have to do it alone.
💚 Our therapists at Evolve are here to help — with real tools, real strategies, and real healing.
We welcome kids, teens, adults, couples, and families.
📞 Call 410-642-4011 or go to our website and complete a new patinet inquiry form.
🌐 www.evolvementalwellness.com
📍 Salisbury, MD | Telehealth available across Maryland
You deserve a mind that feels like a safe place to live.
Let’s evolve — together. 💫en