Tamera J. EMDR Consultant In Training

07/11/2025

Dear Therapist,
What if the anxiety your client feels isn’t a symptom to eliminate, but a protector with a story to share?

Too often, we rush to “fix” what feels uncomfortable. But what if we slowed down and listened instead?

Anxiety may be the voice of a loyal protector doing its best to keep a wound from reopening. When we shift from fixing to witnessing, the healing begins.

💭 Reframe the symptom. Listen to the protector.
💡 Curious about integrating this lens into your work?

🫶 Tag a therapist who holds space for the whole story.
👇 Drop a ❤️ if you believe anxiety has something to teach us.

07/11/2025

I am not here to fix anyone.
I am not the source of healing.
I am becoming…

✨A guide who honors every part of your story.
I welcome the protectors, survivors, and exiles with tenderness, patience, and reverence.

Whether you're a therapist, coach, or seeker, this is your reminder:
You are not behind, nor are you broken.
You are a mosaic of stories that long to be heard.

🫶 You’re becoming too.
📖 Share one word below that describes who you are becoming.

07/10/2025

Dear Therapist,
You’re not just meeting one client in the room, you’re meeting their whole inner system of parts, patterns, and protection.

✨Pace yourself. Notice the attachment cues.
✨Honor what each part is trying to say.
✨Be with, not just do with.

Let’s explore this together in sacred community.

📚 Join the Healer’s Pathway Collective Book Club where we dive into the wisdom of EMDR, parts work, polyvagal theory, and more.

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07/10/2025

I AM Becoming.
A witness to resilience.
I see beyond symptoms.
I listen for the sacred wisdom in survival.

💻 Schedule your EMDR consultation today and begin your journey toward deeper confidence and clarity in your sessions.

Whether you're in certification or simply seeking more alignment in your healing work. I am here to support you.

📅 Schedule now at healerspathway.com 🧠

07/09/2025

✨ New on the Blog ✨

Letting Go of Being the Perfect Therapist: Why It Matters & How to Set Yourself Free!

Dear healer,
Somewhere along the way, many of us internalized the belief that to be good enough, we had to be flawless. Perfect. Always regulated. Never unsure.

But perfectionism is not protection. It’s a prison.

In this latest blog post, I’m sharing my heart and my healing around letting go of that impossible standard and inviting you to do the same.

I believe it’s time to return to your sacred self… the one who is still powerful, still worthy, still healing...even in the mess.

Let’s unlearn hustle, shame, and fear together. You don’t have to carry it all alone.

🤓Read now and share with a sister or colleague who needs this reminder.

www.healerspathway.com/blog/letting-go-of-being-the-perfect-therapist-why-it-matters-amp-how-to-set-yourself-free

📖 Comment below: What belief are you ready to release about being “the perfect therapist”?

Striving to be the “perfect therapist” can quietly drain your energy, confidence, and connection with clients. Whether you're just starting out or have been in the field for years, this blog explores how perfectionism shows up in therapy, why it matters, and practical steps to release the pressu...

07/08/2025

✨ Before we were given the technical title of therapist or clinician, we were known as healers. You are not meant to be perfect, you are meant to become.

💫 Mistakes aren’t proof that you’re failing, they’re invitations into deeper attunement, sacred learning, and mastery. Take a breath. You are becoming the therapist your clients need, one brave moment at a time.

👣 Affirm with me: "I give myself permission to learn, grow, and trust the unfolding."

👇 Drop a 🌱 below if you're giving yourself grace in this season.

07/08/2025

🧠Therapist Reminder: You don’t need the whole story on day one. You need to earn the right to hear it.

Pacing is a clinical skill rooted in respect, attunement, and trauma-informed care.
🫶When you slow down, you build safety.
🫶When you build safety, you build trust.
🫶And trust opens the door to real healing.

🤔What does “earning the story” look like in your practice? How do you honor the client's rhythm?

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07/07/2025

Dear Therapist,
Raising the standard of care doesn’t mean doing more. It means doing what matters most, with presence and precision.✨

Your clinical intuition is powerful. Trust it.

💭 What helps you stay grounded in your presence during sessions?

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07/07/2025

✨Therapist Reminder✨
You don’t have to do more to raise the standard of care. You just have to be more present.

Your clinical intuition is not separate from your skillset. It is your sacred guide. 💫

When you lead with presence, you hold space that heals. When you trust your intuition, you practice with integrity and clarity.

👩🏾‍⚕️💭 What helps you reconnect with your clinical intuition when doubt creeps in?

👇🏽Share in the comments, we grow in community, not in isolation.

💬 Ready to deepen your confidence as a therapist who leads with presence and precision?
DM me for the link to join Join our "Healers Pathway Book Club" and walk the Healer’s Pathway!

🫶🏾You’re not alone. You’re becoming.

🔗 healerspathway.com

07/06/2025

Be the change you desire to see.
Dear Therapist,
Have you ever looked back and realized you are now the therapist you once prayed for?

That growth is sacred. That healing matters.

✨ Let’s honor that healing journey—together.

📖 Join us in the Healer’s Pathway Book Club, a space for new & seasoned EMDR therapists to learn, grow, and rise into the confident, connected clinicians we’re called to be.

➡️ Join us here: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19duTMegRC/

07/06/2025

Be the change you desire to see."
Dear Therapist,
Have you ever looked back and realized you are now the therapist you once prayed for?

That growth is sacred. That healing matters.

✨ Let’s honor that healing journey—together.

📖 Join us in the Healer’s Pathway Book Club, a space for new & seasoned EMDR therapists to learn, grow, and rise into the confident, connected clinicians we’re called to be.

➡️ Join us here: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19duTMegRC/