Embrace your emotions
✨ It’s okay to let your emotions show up.
But don’t be too hard on yourself.
👉It’s okay to be angry, jealous, lonely, sad, or anxious…and we are not always able to control our negative emotions.
Don’t get stuck on changing or denying your emotions, embrace them and be on your side. Tomorrow is a new day.💕
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Here’s your anger management tip of the day.👇
Here’s your anger management tip of the day.👇
When you get angry, try focusing on your breath. Shallow breathing brings more anxiety and more anger. While slow deep breaths can help you 🛑 🛑 🛑
To calm your nervous system, try this simple breathing exercise:
🔹breathe in through your nose for 4 seconds
🔹hold it for 4 seconds
🔹breathe out from your mouth for 4 seconds
🔹sit quietly for 4 seconds.
👉Repeat as many times as you need to calm your nervous system.
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Boundaries are there to protect you.❤️
Boundaries are there to protect you.❤️
And learning how to say no❌ is one of the best ways to build self-care and avoid getting burnt out and resentful.
👉Saying no is a skill we've all been taught to avoid because we are afraid of hurting people, but it's really important!
I know…Setting boundaries with the people in your life can be a scary proposition.
👉It's often easier to let them continue to violate yours than it is to speak up.
But, if you want to achieve healthy relationships and achieve your own happiness, it's worth making the effort.
🔥So don't let your boundaries be built on promises you can't keep, know your limits, and don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.🔥
It's OKAY✅ to say no and mean no.
It's not as hard as you think, and it will make you happier in the long run.😉
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An Unpopular Way to Experience Gratitude
Here’s an unpopular tip to experience gratitude.👇
There’s a lot of information about gratitude..but today I want to share a personal tip.
🌍If you go down memory lane, think about all the places you’ve lived in since you were born…for me, there are 9 different places!
Now…think about at least one good thing about each of these places.💕
👉Savor it and take it in. Be grateful for it.
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If you’d like more support with your mindset..reach out today and let’s talk about it!💌
Don't Blame It All On Yourself
When we are stressed or make a mistake, we often criticize ourselves.
Sounds familiar?😬
I was just talking to my daughter who’s a soccer player, and she mentioned that her best advice to another young athlete would be to not blame it all on yourself when you make mistakes or lose..especially in a team sport.⚽🏀
This made me think about how we can be really harsh on ourselves.
👉Self-talk is so important for our mental health and how we perceive ourselves.
So I invite you today to be kind to yourself and focus on how to improve yourself and your sports performance, instead of letting yourself down. Mistakes are normal and needed.💪
Like this post if you agree.💕
You don't need to be afraid of the fear!
We all experience fear.😰
But most of the time we are scared of the fear itself and we create our own mindset barriers.
👉My tip today is to shift your mindset and to be comfortable with being uncomfortable.
Fear is not something wrong and you don’t have to be afraid of it. Use it as a means to do better and go through your limits, as an athlete, and in your personal life.💕
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A Tip To Improve Your Mood
Here is a technique to lift your mood and improve your wellbeing.🍃
👉I learned it from the great author Rick Hanson, who wrote the book “Buddha’s Brain,” and it is about how to rewire your brain by taking in the good.
The way that this technique works is that you:
✨Take something positive that has happened or will happen to you. It could be anything, like having a cup of coffee while sitting in your garden.
✨Once you have focused on the positive event, engage your senses when you think about it and savor it. Let it simmer in your mind.
✨Do this for 10 to 20 seconds at a time because that’s how long it takes to get stored in your long-term memory.
Try the power of rewiring your brain to improve your mood.
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Make Your Struggle Worth It
Today I’ve got a tip from a great author.👇
Mark Manson wrote an awesome book📘 called “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F@*k” and he says:
🔥“Who you are is defined by what you are willing to struggle for.”🔥
This means that you should make your struggle worthwhile.
Your struggles will pay off and make you who YOU are.💪
Do you agree with what Mark says?
Today it’s time to unplug.🔌
In a world that is so chaotic, it can be hard to relax, rejuvenate, and practice self-care.
So here are my tips for you today to relax and unplug.👇
🍃 First, think outside the box when taking care of yourself.
🍃Going to the beach or getting a massage is a great way to relax, but maybe all you can manage today is to SLOW down and really savor your morning coffee or sit outside in the sun for a few minutes.☕🌞
And this is OKAY.
🍃Just because your day doesn’t allow for a ton of free time doesn’t mean you can’t take advantage of small moments to unplug.
🧘♀️Deep breathing is also a good addition to any moment you want to savor and take in.
How do you unplug from your day-to-day chaos? Let me know in the comments.
Today it’s time to unplug
Today it’s time to unplug.🔌
In a world that is so chaotic, it can be hard to relax, rejuvenate, and practice self-care.
So here are my tips for you today to relax and unplug.👇
🍃 First, think outside the box when taking care of yourself.
🍃Going to the beach or getting a massage is a great way to relax, but maybe all you can manage today is to SLOW down and really savor your morning coffee or sit outside in the sun for a few minutes.☕🌞
And this is OKAY.
🍃Just because your day doesn’t allow for a ton of free time doesn’t mean you can’t take advantage of small moments to unplug.
🧘♀️Deep breathing is also a good addition to any moment you want to savor and take in.
How do you unplug from your day-to-day chaos? Let me know in the comments.
Tips For Parents Of Athletes
📣Calling all parents of athletes📣
✨If your young athlete is struggling with anxiety related to their sport, then you should watch this short video with some of my top tips.
🙏Anxiety is a normal emotion, and we should learn how to manage it, not suppress it.
👉If your athlete needs more support with their mindset and performance, and you’ve tried everything, but you can’t figure out how to help them, reach out and I’d be happy to give you expert advice.
Your athlete can deal with their pre-performance anxiety, they just need the right tools and mindset to get through it.❤️🔥
Your dreams DO NOT expire!
Happy Monday, guys!☕
Today I wanted to remind you that ✨your dreams DO NOT expire.✨
You should keep trying and trying until you reach them.
👉Failure is a part of the process, so don’t give up if you don’t get immediate results.
Keep dreaming big.🔥
If you or your young athlete needs more support with finding the motivation and the right mindset for their sport, DM me.💌
👉I can help you with peak performance, but I can also address any ongoing mental health concerns such as depression, anxiety, grief, or relationship issues.