01/03/2024
I have been a fan of Virginia Sole-Smith for a long time. I am so passionate about the work she does and grateful we have her as a voice in our world.
I listened to this as an audiobook, and immediately bought myself a copy, as I know I will be reading this several more times and sharing it with everyone I know.
Fat Talk should be read by every parent, caregiver or person that has any interaction with children. I love the way Virginia brings together research and anecdotes to provide us with an easy-to-read evidence-based understanding of fat phobia and the problems it causes in our world.
It was hard to hear some of the stories shared, as they felt so close to home and brought up memories of my childhood. Parts of the story also filled me with rage, to understand in a deeper level how fatphobia and bias are so insidious.
But that this book exists and people are doing this work also fills me with hope. The conversations are taking place. As a pediatric dietitian who works with families on these exact issues, I am glad to hear it’s a part of a bigger conversation.
Toward the end of the book Virginia provides real scripts and guidelines adults can use with their children. I will be going back and using many of these I’m sure.
Making changes and doing things differently is hard. We are untangling what we have learned throughout a lifetime.
I hope that we can be easy on ourselves and know we don’t have to have it all figured out overnight.
Thank you, Virginia, for putting this book into the world. I am so grateful for you!