Death Midwife

05/23/2025

✨ I’m so excited to finally share this…

After months of pouring my heart, knowledge, and lived experience into this project, my website is live and so is my Dementia Caregiver Course. 💜

This 11-module course walks family caregivers through every stage of the dementia journey from Dementia 101 to end-of-life care.

It’s made with love and compassion for families who are navigating what can feel like an overwhelming, isolating, and heart-wrenching path.

💻 You can explore the course and learn more here:
👉 https://caringmindsdementiacare.com
📚 The course is $297 with lifetime access, so you can come back to it whenever you need support.

💬 I also invite you to join my free Facebook community, where I regularly share education, encouragement, and resources for caregivers:
👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/caringmindsdementiandbrainhanges

If you know someone caring for a loved one with dementia a neighbor, friend, client, or colleague please feel free to share this with them. It may be the support and guidance they didn’t know they needed.

Thank you for being part of this mission with me. 💫

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11/27/2024

We need to fight this and protect our rights!!

In the wake of a new political landscape, many Americans are asking what the future holds for personal rights, including the autonomy to make decisions about end-of-life care. A new agenda—Project 2025, developed by the conservative “think tank” the Heritage Foundation—poses significant chal...

10/29/2024

I have the honor of helping a client on 11/9 who has chosen that date to be his departure from this world. No more pain, breathing difficulties and loss of bodily functions. He has chosen!!

10/01/2024

Controlling What is Within Your Control:

Focus on Actions, Not Outcomes: You can control your actions and behaviors, not the results. Make peace with the effort and let go of the need for specific outcomes.

Mindset: Cultivate a positive mindset. Choose optimism and gratitude, and practice resilience in the face of adversity.

Health: Maintain a healthy lifestyle through exercise, nutrition, and sleep. This impacts your overall well-being.

Letting Go:

Acceptance: Accept that certain things are beyond your control and that trying to control them leads to unnecessary stress.

Mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness practices to stay anchored in the present moment, letting go of past regrets or future worries.

Forgiveness: Forgive yourself and others, letting go of grudges and resentment that can burden your spirit.

By focusing on these areas, you can cultivate a life that is true to who you are, resilient to external pressures, and rich in meaningful relationships and achievements.

09/20/2024

Everybody has their own opinions on alcohol and drug addiction, but until you've been there, your opinion means nothing. You don't control addiction, it controls you. There are some fortunate ones who have beat it, but don't think because they're still alive, that life is gravy. They fight everyday, all day to stay sober and clean. It's a constant battle from the time they open their eyes until they close them, and it never goes away. Most are good people who made a bad choice. Battling an addiction is a beast for the person addicted and the ones who love them.
So, in loving memory of every family member and friend who has lost their battle with addiction, and those who continue to conquer it, put this on your page if you know someone who has or had an addiction.
I know who will.

🙏🏼💯💜🙏🏼👋🏼

08/20/2024

Hard to watch myself but here is my interview from this morning on Great Day Colorado.

This is a sponsored segment by Care Matters, LLC. It’s time to discover the key to better care for your seniors right here in Colorado. We’re introducing you to Care Matters, a local bu…

08/16/2024

I am being interviewed next Tuesday 8/20 regarding my services through Care Matters, Care Matters Registry and Caring Minds. It will air at 915am that day live on KWGN CH 2 from 9a-10a. If you would like to check it out I would appreciate the support.

07/04/2024

Happy 4th of July!
As we celebrate our nation's independence, I want to take a moment to honor and appreciate the brave men and women who have served and continue to serve our country. Your dedication and sacrifice ensure the freedoms we enjoy every day. Thank you for your unwavering commitment and courage.

To my incredible referral partners and the families we serve at Care Matters, LLC and Care Matters Registry, your trust and collaboration mean the world to me. Together, we are redefining senior care standards and making a difference in the lives of so many. Your support and partnership are truly invaluable.

Wishing everyone a safe, joyous, and patriotic Independence Day! Let's continue to work together, support one another, and celebrate the freedoms that make our country great.

05/02/2024

Have you always been interested in knowing more about available options for end of life here in CO and Nationwide? Why not take a half day class and learn more. My friend and colleague Eric Rooney with Regeneration Earth is hosting a half day class June 15th and you can join us by getting your tickets.

Join us for a deep dive into end-of-life legal options in Colorado through an interactive workshop on all thing VSED & MAID by Eric Rooney

03/11/2024

When I go,
don’t learn to live without me,
just learn to live with my love,
in a different way.

And if you need to see me,
close your eyes,
or look in your shadow,
when the sun shines,

I’m there.

Sit with me in the quiet and you will know,
that I did not leave.

There is no leaving when a soul is blended with another.

When I go,
don’t learn to live without me,
just learn to look for me in the moments.

I will be there.
💜💛🩵

03/11/2024

WHEN YOU DIE, don't worry about your body... your relatives will do whatever is necessary according to their possibilities.
They will take your clothes off, wash you, dress you, take you out of your house and take you to your new address.
Many will come to your funeral to "say goodbye." Some will cancel commitments and even miss work to go to your funeral.
Your belongings, even what you didn't like to lend, will be sold, given away or burned.
Your keys, your tools, your books, your shoes, your clothes... And rest assured that the world will not stop to cry for you. The economy will continue.
In your job, you will be replaced. Someone with the same or better capabilities will take your place.

Your assets will go to your heirs.... And do not doubt that you will continue to be cited, judged, questioned and criticized for the small and great things you did in life.

People who knew you only by your appearance will say; Poor man or woman! o He or she had a great time!

Your sincere friends will cry for a few hours or a few days, but then they will return to laughter.

The "friends" who pulled you to partying will forget about you faster.

Your animals will get used to the new owner.

Your photos will hang on the wall or remain on a piece of furniture for a while, but then perhaps they will be stored at the bottom of a drawer. And we will only live in the memory of those who loved us.

Someone else will sit on your couch and eat at your table.

The deep pain in your house will last a week, two, a month, two, a year, two... Then you will be added to the memories and then, your story is over.

It ended up among people, it ended up here, it ended up in this world.

But begin your story in your new reality... in your life after death.
Your life where you couldn't move with the things from here because, when you left, they lost the value they had.
Body
Beauty
Appearance
Last name
Comfort
Credit
State
Position
Bank account
Home
Car
Profession
Titles
Diplomas
Medals
Trophies
Friends
Places
Spouse
Family...

In your new life you will only need your spirit. And the value you have accumulated here will be the only fortune you will have there.
That fortune is the only one you will take with you and it is amassed during the time you are here. When you live a life of love for others and peace with your neighbors, you are amassing your spiritual fortune.

That's why try to live fully and be happy while you're here because, "From here you won't take what you have. You'll only take what you gave."

03/10/2024

To help those who no longer want to suffer is one of my gifts