Midwife Allison Tartari

03/02/2026

02/26/2026

I am having way too much fun experimenting with these LifeWave patches on myself, my family, and even my pregnant clients.

Knowing there are no drugs and nothing entering the bloodstream makes it an easy yes for me.

We have all been dealing with terrible allergies lately. One of my postpartum moms had a head cold last week, and we both decided to place the patches right over our sinuses. Within minutes the pressure eased and our sinuses cleared. I was honestly shocked.

I usually rely on a neti pot and D hist for allergies, which help, but they are not always instant. And I really try to avoid heavier antihistamines when I can because I feel awful the next day.

I never even read about anyone putting these patches on their sinuses. I just randomly tried it and it was amazing for both of us 😂

The only downside is you cannot really leave the house looking like that, but it was so worth it.

02/16/2026

Research shows that pregnancy and childbirth bring wide-ranging changes to a woman’s body, brain, hormones, and emotions. Internal healing of tissues and the pelvic floor can take several months, while rebuilding physical strength and stability often takes about a year. Hormonal balance and brain chemistry linked to mood and bonding may take up to two years to settle. Beyond the physical, many women need years to emotionally and psychologically integrate motherhood into their sense of self. This is not a sign of weakness, but a natural biological process. Understanding these timelines helps create more realistic expectations and greater compassion for mothers.

02/16/2026

Postpartum visits often prioritize social expectations over the mother’s needs. Studies reveal that approximately 87 percent of these visits are structured for the comfort or curiosity of visitors rather than supporting the recovering parent. One common pattern, the “pass the baby” rule can place a hidden tax on a mother’s nervous system, increasing stress and fatigue.

Every time a mother must hand her newborn to a visitor, her body and brain enter alert mode, preparing for potential disruption or overstimulation. This constant activation interferes with rest, recovery, and bonding, which are critical in the weeks following birth.

Recognizing this issue allows families to set boundaries that prioritize maternal well-being. Simple strategies include limiting physical interaction with the baby, scheduling visits around rest and feeding, and communicating clear expectations to visitors. These approaches help protect the nervous system, support bonding, and reduce postpartum stress.

By shifting focus from pleasing guests to meeting the mother’s needs, families can create a healthier recovery environment. The “new rule” encourages prioritizing the parent’s physical and emotional health first, ensuring that postpartum care truly supports both mother and child.

02/13/2026

Postpartum home visits are some of my favorite visits.❤️❤️

Today I spent time with a mom who birthed in the hospital and had a truly beautiful experience at Scripps in their new birthing rooms. I’ll share more about that space in my next post.

The postpartum visit feels different than anything else. It is slower. Gentler. There is space to breathe, to talk, to reflect on what just happened, and to begin making sense of the changes taking place.

Of course we check in on baby. But we begin with mom. Because when a mother feels supported, seen, and cared for, her baby usually settles right alongside her.

This is what true individualized care looks like.My role is to walk closely with families through pregnancy, birth, and the early postpartum weeks. I know what is normal in this tender window, what simply needs reassurance and support, and when something needs a different set of eyes or deeper care. Knowing when to refer is just as important as knowing when to stay present.

Most moms will not see their OB again until six weeks postpartum. And yet we know so much can shift in those early weeks.

Postpartum home visits help gently prevent and catch things like:
• bleeding concerns
• signs of infection
• blood pressure changes
• feeding challenges
• mood or anxiety shifts
• exhaustion and depletion
• feelings of isolation or overwhelm
Nurturing is a foundational part of pregnancy, birth, and postpartum. It is often missing in modern medical care, not because anyone doesn’t care, but because the system does not make room for it. Relationship-based care changes that.These visits matter. They support healthier families and lead to better long-term outcomes. It’s worth asking why this level of care isn’t part of standard postpartum support.

Ask your doctor.
Ask your insurance.
Ask your hospital.

In countries with stronger maternal outcomes, community midwifery is central to postpartum care.

No matter where you give birth, you deserve support in those early weeks.

To learn more about postpartum home visits: DM me or text me 619-846-6359. Visit my website the link is in my bio

01/10/2026

Opening a box like this from never gets oldThe smell alone tells you it’s good. These herbs are going toward NORA tea for my clients and little tea gifts for the women coming to our screening of the documentary M.U.M. (Misconceptions of Miscarriage) through Solace January 16th at 3:00 pm
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I love because they actually care. Organic, ethically sourced, a lot grown locally, and when it can’t be local, it’s sourced where the quality is best. No plastic, no MLM pricing nonsense, just really beautiful plants.

Because I have a wholesale account, I get to make real things for real women. Teas, tinctures, oils, blends that actually support you, not just something cute on a shelf. These are the same kinds of blends I use for my clients and in our Solace boxes.

This kind of work feels old and familiar in the best way. Slow, thoughtful, made with intention.

If you ever want a custom tea made just for you, cycle support, postpartum, grief, nervous system, whatever season you’re in, DM me. I’d genuinely love to make something for you 🤍

01/05/2026

✨ Saúde da mulher | Preconcepção | Fertilidade | Gravidez ✨

Muitas mulheres têm me perguntado sobre os LifeWave patches e como eles podem apoiar o corpo feminino em diferentes fases da vida — especialmente na preconcepção, fertilidade e gravidez.

Os patches LifeWave não contêm medicamentos nem hormônios. Eles utilizam uma tecnologia que estimula pontos da pele para ajudar o corpo a funcionar de forma mais eficiente, apoiando processos naturais como:

• equilíbrio do sistema nervoso
• redução do estresse físico e emocional
• suporte à energia celular
• bem-estar geral e recuperação

💛 Antes da gestação, o foco é ajudar o corpo a ficar mais equilibrado, descansado e resiliente.
💛 Na fertilidade, muitas mulheres buscam apoio para inflamação, estresse, sono e energia, fatores que influenciam diretamente o ciclo e os hormônios.
💛 Na gravidez, quando usados com orientação, os patches podem apoiar conforto físico e adaptação do corpo às mudanças dessa fase.

🔗 Link para conhecer a LifeWave:
https://lifewave.com/midwifeallisontartari/enrollment/EnrollerSelection

⚠️ Importante: existem vários tipos de patches, e cada mulher tem necessidades diferentes.
👉 Me envie uma mensagem para que eu possa te ajudar a se cadastrar e escolher quais patches podem ser mais benéficos para você, de forma individualizada. birthservices@allisontartari.com

✨ A LifeWave também oferece uma garantia de 30 dias.
Se você não sentir diferença, é possível devolver o produto sem custo dentro desse período.

Como parteira, sempre reforço: cada corpo é único. Meu papel é te orientar com consciência, respeito e cuidado.

Com carinho,
Allison
Parteira licenciada | Saúde da mulher

01/05/2026

Infant Probiotics, GBS+, and Antibiotics During Labor 🤍

If you are GBS positive and decide that it feels right for you to follow hospital protocol and receive antibiotics during labor, there are supportive ways to help protect and restore your baby’s developing microbiome.

One option I often discuss with families is infant probiotics.

Why probiotics can be supportive:
• Antibiotics during labor can reduce both harmful and beneficial bacteria passed to baby at birth
• Probiotics may help support gut balance and digestion in the newborn period
• They can support immune development and overall gut health
• Some babies experience gas, fussiness, or stool changes when their microbiome is off balance
• Even babies whose mothers did not receive antibiotics can benefit
• Formula-fed babies may especially benefit from microbiome support

I often recommend Smidge Infant Probiotic, and many of my clients choose it as a gentle way to support their baby’s gut in the early weeks. Every baby is different, and sometimes microbiome imbalance can happen regardless of birth circumstances. You can purchase it with a 20% discount in my Linktree (as well as any other professional supplements for the family)

✨ If you have questions about:
• The true risks and benefits of antibiotics during labor
• GBS options and individualized decision-making
• How to best support your baby after birth

Please reach out for a private consultation. You deserve clear, balanced information so you can make informed, confident choices for yourself and your baby.

Education over fear. Support over pressure. Always. 🤍

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