02/16/2026
One of our own shares her caregiving tips. What ideas do you have to share with us?
“Like many here I am also a caregiver to my mama with Alzheimer’s. When she was still able to live on her own, to get her to shower, I would say, ‘you shower first, then I will’ or vice versa. It was something I did when I was raising my son. It worked with him and it worked with her, too. There was something very sweet about that.
My mama still can feed herself, but sometimes she doesn’t want to. I took the same basic idea by adding a bowl and spoon for me too, then I say, ‘your turn’ and then, ‘now my turn’. I found whenever we could do something together like this, it usually worked really well.
I focus on ALL my mama can still do, not so much what she’s can’t. Most important, we need to be able to find laughter in the midst of this journey. Anyway, I wanted to share my tips with everyone here and see what creative ideas others may have!”