
06/30/2025
✨Feeling overwhelmed? These quick, science-backed tools help calm your nervous system—rooted in the wisdom of Polyvagal Theory 🧠💜
Polyvagal Theory (developed by Dr. Stephen Porges) explains how our nervous system responds to safety, danger, and connection. It shows us that regulation isn't just mental—it's biological. Our body has built-in pathways (like the vagus nerve) that help us shift between stress and calm and sometimes we can get chronically stuck in a state of not feeling safe (even when we are) and need help getting unstuck.
When we feel safe, we enter a ventral vagal state—where we can connect, think clearly, and feel grounded. But under stress, our system can move into fight-or-flight or even shutdown.
These simple practices can help bring your system back into balance by activating the vagus nerve and inviting a sense of safety back into your body.
When we're stressed, we can gently guide our system back to regulation using sensory input, connection, and breath. Here's how:
💧 Drink ice water – Activates the vagus nerve through the throat and helps shift the body out of fight-or-flight (sympathetic) mode.
🎶 Sing or hum – Stimulates the vagus nerve via vocal cords, inviting the ventral vagal state, which supports calm and connection.
🐾 Connect with your pet or hug a loved one – Safe social contact cues the nervous system that we’re not alone and that we’re safe.
🌬️ Long exhales / 4-7-8 breathing – Helps tone the vagus nerve, slowing the heart rate and encouraging a parasympathetic (rest/digest) response.
❄️ Apply a cold pack to the back of your neck – Stimulates the vagus nerve and can help regulate heart rate and promote a grounded state.
These practices offer powerful, accessible ways to co-regulate or self-regulate—especially when stress sneaks up. Which one do you turn to first? 💭👇