01/16/2026
My toxic trait?: “If I can do it better, I’ll just do it myself.”
And for a long time, that mindset felt like strength.
👉It got things done.
👉 It built momentum.
👉 It helped me survive seasons where there was no room for mistakes.
But if I’m being honest, it also kept me tired, resentful, and carrying way more than I needed to.
Getting older has humbled me in the best way. I’ve learned that just because I can do something faster or better doesn’t mean I should. Real growth for me has been slowing down, explaining the why, giving people the space to learn, and letting things be done differently than I would do them.
I’m still impatient AF, but I’ve gotten so much better 🙃
Because leadership isn’t about being the most capable person in the room, it’s about creating capable people around you.
That shift has made me a better business owner, a better coach, and honestly… a better human.
Cheers to growth! 🙌