02/13/2021
đ€Black people: Have you ever been in a relationship with someone and accused them of not meeting your needs, but realized they didn't know what you needed until you told them? It's often that way in relationship with our allies/accomplices/co-conspirators, etc. On a macro level, we all know that structures need to change. But on a micro/interpersonal level, we have to let them know what actions they can take to benefit to our communities in meaningful ways. This involves dialogue beyond, "Pay meâŠand Google it!" People don't know what they don't know, until they know.
POC: By now, we know that everyoneâs level of acculturation is different, and no group is a monolith. This week brought the conversation about solidarity and anti-racism for all groups affected by ws, to the forefront. I'm sure we can all recount pleasant and unpleasant experiences between and among our groups. What kind of conversations are happening in your homes/communities? What is it that you need us to hear/know?
white people: It's imperative that you keep sharing, amplifying, and letting people in your circle know âhowâ you're standing for what's right. It is also normal for you to be concerned with 'getting it wrong', not wanting to 'center' yourselves/cause harm, and mourn the loss/strain of close relationshipsâŠas you knew them. Find spaces where you can talk with other people who are navigating this work just like you, and process your feelings. You'll see that you're not alone, start to feel more comfortable with your activism, and have more energy to keep fighting the good fight. Because, racism isn't going anywhere anytime soon.