11/25/2022
I have been diagnosed with Stage 5 kidney failure. My kidney function has gradually gotten worse over the past several years, and I am at the point where my treatment options are very limited. I will need to start regular dialysis treatments for the rest of my life or get a kidney transplant.
For people like me, a kidney transplant can increase the chances of living a longer, healthier life. My dialysis can only do a fraction of what your healthy kidneys do for your body every day. I am likely to live longer with a transplant than if I begin dialysis. With a kidney transplant I can enjoy a quality life spending time with my wife of 45 years, 2 daughters, 2 sons-in-law, and 4 grandkids and watch them grow up to be adults.
I need a Type O+ blood type donor. My doctors have advised me that I will need to start dialysis in the near future unless I receive a kidney transplant. If I get the transplant before going on dialysis the success rate is much greater, and if I receive a living donor transplant the success rate is even better. That is where you can help.
I am currently on the national deceased donor waiting list. The average wait time is five years. The only other way to shorten the wait time is for me to get a transplant from a living donor. Even though most of us are born with two kidneys, we only need one healthy kidney to survive. That means you or someone else you know could save a life by choosing to be a living donor. Kidneys from living donors can even last almost twice as long as kidneys from deceased donors. Of course, a kidney transplant is a major surgery for myself and my donor, so it does have risks. However, transplant surgery is generally safe and very often successful. The donor typically has a short hospital stay and has some restrictions for a few weeks before returning to their normal activities. My health insurance would cover all the medical expenses for the donor.
There is no telling when I will get that call from my transplant center that a kidney is available for me. So, while I wait, I am choosing to focus on what is in my control.
I have decided to start my own search for a living donor. It is not easy, but I am reaching out to people closest to me for help.
Please share my story with others you know. You never know who may be able to help me find a donor.
Please let me know if you would like to learn more about the living donor process and what it takes to become a living kidney donor for me or someone else. You can also contact my transplant center at 913-945-6929. Thank you for considering my request and may God bless you in your decision.