
02/11/2023
All of this:
What you love about me, and what you hate, has nothing to do with me, itโs YOUR perception.
Itโs not personal. ๐
This is how I stay sane while being very public.
grace.seol wrote about this the other day and I was so delighted to see someone else practicing what has kept me anchored for many years.
This awareness blossomed after years of practicing The Work of .katie.
It's very simple: everything you see in me is a projection. You can only know me based on your ideas of me.
My connection to myself is different from how I'm perceived by you.
My connection to myself and a sense of safety used to be deeply rooted in other's perception of me.
This meant no one could dislike me because, if they did, my self-connection and safety would implode.
When I started becoming recognized for my work I was in private practice in Woodstock, NY. I never had an Instagram page, any videos, or a podcast. I didn't even have a smart phone!
I felt very safe in my office with my clients and I wanted it to stay that way, but I was always devoted to teaching people how to heal and I followed whatever mysterious, divine path my work brought me to.
And it quickly brought my online in front of thousands and thousands of people.
The only way to survive this was to practice the reality that what you love about me, and what you hate about me, has nothing to do with me.
It's YOUR perception. That doesn't mean I'm not accountable with my actions.
My actions and how you perceive me are two different things. This happens in my course quite often.
I will pause people when they're sharing so we can go into the body and leave the mind. Some people love this and some HATE it.
I've even been accused of being racist, misogynist, and dominating because of it.
And I've never denied that I've done it - but I don't believe, internalize, or take personally what story you tell about me when I do it.
It's just that simple.
This keeps me sane, honest, and respectful to you my audience and my participants because I'm not trying to win you over by performing favorably.
I'm just showing up and letting you decide how you want to see me. I don't know a better way of living or loving.