Native Heartseed

09/17/2025

Everyone’s afraid their pain doesn’t matter.
So we yell, blame, withdraw.
But what if the courageous move right now
is just to see one another—
without defense, without fixing,
without flinching?

09/12/2025

Truth without compassion becomes another weapon.
Blame divides. Presence connects.
An inflection point needn't be a cue to fight harder—
but to listen deeper.

09/10/2025

You are not late.
You are right on time for your life.
The invitation isn’t to rush—it’s to listen.

09/05/2025

Getting the Love You Want. September 26-28 at the Caritas Center for Healing in Tucson’s historic Armory Park.

Early bird registration deadline is September 5. Register now and save some money, and maybe your marriage.

Check out the attached photo. It’s a summary of a recent Harvard University study about what makes a long marriage work.

It’s not s*x or even romance, although those are a plus.

It’s not ease, although it’s certainly enjoyable to experience that.

It’s resilience.

It’s the willingness to bounce back, turn toward each other, and recover emotionally. Even if it feels shaky at first.

Getting the Love You Want facilitates resilience. It changes lives, saves marriages, and restores connection. It heals division at a time when we urgently need to do so. 

September 26-28 at the Caritas Center for Healing in Tucson’s historic Armory Park. 

Register today! The early bird deadline to receive a significant discount is tomorrow, September 5.

We’d absolutely love to serve you.

09/01/2025

When you stop resisting this moment, it reveals itself.
It’s never been your enemy.
Only your next teacher.

08/29/2025

You are not what is happening.
You are what is aware of what is happening.
This is your power:
You are not the wave. You are the ocean.

08/22/2025

When I ask “Am I enough?”
What I really mean is:
“Will this moment hold me?”
And it always does.

08/17/2025

08/12/2025

You are not the story.
You are the one the story passes through.
You are not the weather.
You are the sky.

08/05/2025

The world will always have opinions.
But only you have the full record.
Only you hold the memory, the meaning, the truth of what it’s like to live inside your skin.

08/01/2025

In therapy, we often seek understanding.
In coaching, we seek alignment.
What values are guiding your choices?
What feels most true for you now?

07/30/2025

Your life has always included you.
You’ve never been outside of it.
So stop outsourcing your authority.
Come back to the one who knows.