01/18/2026
But little by little,
as you left their voices behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do—
determined to save
the only life you could save.
---Mary Oliver
"The Journey"
Hello Everyone!
After a brief holiday hiatus, the newsletters are back!
While the world around us might seem to be imploding, we are not without refuge. It almost seems as if these times are forcing us to go within for the counsel, peace and sanity that have always been inside us. The world distracts us from ourselves, doesn't it? And we learn to give into that attention grab for any number of reasons, but I'm remembering now a poem by Derek Walcott, entitled "Love After Love," in which he talks about the return to self.
"You will love again the stranger who was your self," he says in this lovely poem. "Give back your heart to itself, to the stranger who has loved you all your life, whom you ignored for another, who knows you by heart."
These are the words that come to me when I read this month's message from the helping spirits I work with:
"Do you remember when you were powerful? This question is not about past lives, when you imagine you might have been Alexander the Great or Cleopatra. This question isn’t even about worldly power. This question is about the power that comes from deep and true self-knowing, a pure and unequivocal sense of who you are and why you are here.
Do you know that when you came into this life, you had total awareness of who you were, where you had already been, and why you were continuing your soul’s journey in this, your present life? You were born into a family, a group that didn’t know who they were receiving, that tailored your needs to their own, your identity, prospects, and capabilities to what they required, discouraging, perhaps unwittingly, in one way or another, anything that lay outside of those parameters.
The greatest challenge of your growth and maturation process, the greatest obstacle to fulfilling your destiny in this life, is to un-learn almost everything the world has already taught you about yourself—the ways in which you fall short, don’t belong, don’t measure up, don’t deserve the things you long for, must struggle to be heard, valued and understood. The greatest waste of your time and energy is your effort to fit in. You are here to show the world what is unique and unparalleled about you, not to assure everyone how much you are like them.
If you were meant to be like others, you would have been made that way. Instead, you came into this world unlike anyone who has ever lived before and anyone who ever will!
Begin to enumerate to yourself all the things that set you apart, that make you unlike others, and then celebrate and advertise those differences, instead of disparaging or hiding them. Flaunt them!
Think about all the books, movies, actors, musicians, songs, stories that you love. Do you love them because they are like every other book or song or performer that you’ve known? Of course not. You love them because they stand out from the rest with something new and different and startling to say.
The very same is true for you! You have something new and different and startling to bring to this world. It is the source of your power. You came with it into this life, and though you have forgotten it, have laid it aside, have come to perhaps feel shame around it, it is still there, still waiting to be shared. And it must be shared, not just for you, but for the world.
You came into this life to serve the collective human soul in a unique and powerful way. You’re not just visiting, just marking time, keeping your head down and moving through the crowd. What a waste of a life and effort that would be!
So much of what you experience is not personal. You are a crucial part of a human evolution. That is why you are here; not entirely for your own individual advancement. When you focus less on being accepted and understood and concentrate more on what unique component you are here to bring to that grander scale evolution, you will be more in your body, more focused and content.
Do not look out into the world and ask it to mirror back to you your value and worth. The world does not know who you are or why you are here. Only you carry that precious information deep within you.
Ask yourself: what inspires me? What am I passionate about? What am I good at? What occupies my attention and fascinates me? What is missing from this world? Is there a role I can play in the discovery or advancement of what the world needs? There are clues in the answers to those questions regarding your field of play.
The only thing that stands in the way of you finding the answers to those questions is your own reluctance to explore and undertake them. And while it might seem like there are mountains in your way forward, the truth is the path is right at hand; it has always been there.
Everything you require to fulfill your destiny has been provided for you. It was all in your back pack when you arrived! The world will challenge and obstruct the fulfillment of that destiny; it is meant to do that, to test your mettle and provide the sand that shapes the rare and beautiful pearl that you are.
It is a time to look within now. The world around you is demonstrating more than ever what has always been true—it serves only the few in ways that ultimately prove to be meaningless.
Your inner world is the place where you have always had the power to choose your experience. Go there. Look around. What doesn’t serve you? What gets in your way? Bundle all that up and take it out to the curb. Clear away the thoughts that undermine, disparage, demolish your dreams. You no longer can afford to entertain what others have claimed to know about you. It’s time to set the record straight!"
I'll be in touch again next month. And don't forget to check out my new novel, available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.com!
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Deep Peace of the Tumbling Snowflakes,
Jane