GrowOptimism LLC

02/12/2023

Why is it so hard to find the right partner?

It seems like everyone else is in a relationship I’ve been there. In fact, there was a time when I knew for a fact that no one would ever be interested in me romantically. Boy, was I wrong.

There can be a lot of factors getting in the way of finding a great partner. I learned to apply behavioral science to dating and had a great experience with relationships after that. I wrote a book so I could help more people do the same.
In honor of Valentine’s Day, I’m offering my book ReSingled for free. Just click below to get your e-copy.

ReSingled: Survive and Then Thrive: Leverage Behavioral Science to Recover and Find Your Ideal Partner

02/11/2023

Are you ready for your next great love?

Some say that we attract people who love us as much as we love ourselves. If this is true, what kind of partner will you find today?

If you are like me, you may know you are valuable, but how much are you showing it (e.g., prioritizing rest, forgiving yourself when you make a mistake, making a meaningful connection with someone)? I found that I need to walk the walk, not just talk the talk.
It’s Valentines week. Why not write yourself a love letter? Spend some time focusing on what’s great about you.

Check out the ReSingled page and learn more!
https://www.facebook.com/ReSingledBook/

Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Coach, Author, Behavioral Scientist
Dedicated to helping you find Great Love Fast!

02/11/2023

Are you ready to say yes to love?

I know the pain and fear of starting all over again in the dating game and the fear of rejection or of getting it wrong again.

But what were my options? Did I want to go through the rest of my life without a partner? NO! Dealing head-on with my emotions and doubling down on connecting with others seemed to help me say YES to love.

Click the link below to learn more about how to say “yes” to love and walk away from fear. For the next 4 days you can get my ReSingled e-book for free.

ReSingled: Survive and Then Thrive: Leverage Behavioral Science to Recover and Find Your Ideal Partner

02/08/2023

Do you ever feel impatient about finding your perfect partner?

I hate to admit it, there have been times when I’ve grown impatient waiting for a new love interest to drop into my life too. Also, my daughter recently challenged me on my impatience about waiting for a table in restaurants or in line at the store.

It gave me an opportunity to think about my impatience & the cost?

Check out the ReSingled page and learn more!
https://www.facebook.com/ReSingledBook/

Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Coach, Author, Behavioral Scientist
Dedicated to helping you find Great Love Fast!

02/01/2023

Are you getting worn out by a friend or family member who is sad and needing you after what seems like a revolving door of breakups?

It's hard to listen to stories of bad dates and relationships that fail time after time. Helping them pick up the pieces again is difficult and exhausting.

It can be exhausting taking care of other people. Even though you want to help it’s ok to set boundaries about how much you can give – even when their needs are real, big and painful. Taking care of yourself helps you be a better friend when you are together.

Check out the ReSingled page and learn more!
https://www.facebook.com/ReSingledBook/

Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Coach, Author, Behavioral Scientist
Dedicated to helping you find Great Love Fast!

01/31/2023

Are you worried about a friend or family member who is striking out finding love?

It's hard to watch someone wonderful, who is a real catch, suffer from not finding a good partner, right?

We can continue to help them on their journey by making them feel welcome & important when they are with us – whether they are in a relationship or not.

Reach out this week with a call or text to say “hello, I was thinking about you”. It will only take a minute and it can make a real difference.

Check out the ReSingled page and learn more!
https://www.facebook.com/ReSingledBook/

Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Coach, Author, Behavioral Scientist
Dedicated to helping you find Great Love Fast!

01/30/2023

Have you recently broken up and don’t want to make the same mistake again?

I get it! I was tired of the revolving door of failed relationships too. I didn’t know if I could start all over again.

As much as my ex’s played a big part in ending our relationship, I knew I had to do some soul searching to figure out if and how I was contributing too.

What might you be doing or thinking that is getting in your own way?

Check out the ReSingled page and learn more!
https://www.facebook.com/ReSingledBook/

Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Coach, Author, Behavioral Scientist
Dedicated to helping you find Great Love Fast!

01/29/2023

Your life is pretty great, right? But do you still wish you had someone special to share it with?

I get it. I also have a great job, good friends, lots of fun events and activities, but I wanted someone to enjoy it with!

I learned to clear out the negative thinking I had about the possibility of finding a partner (e.g., finding my match is like looking for a needle in a haystack). I didn’t know I was getting in my own way but becoming more positive cleared the way to new partners.

Check out the ReSingled page and learn more!
https://www.facebook.com/ReSingledBook/

Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Coach, Author, Behavioral Scientist
Dedicated to helping you find Great Love Fast!

01/27/2023

Are you dreading spending Valentines Day alone again?

I don’t know why I let it get to me. After all, I’m smart, successful, have good friends, but still sometimes I feel that something is missing if I don’t have that special person to share my life with.

I learned to do some self-talk and remember that love is love, regardless of where it comes from. I scheduled time to be with my favorite girlfriends that night and will celebrate the love I have in my life with joy!

Check out the ReSingled page and learn more!

https://www.facebook.com/ReSingledBook/

Laura Heft, Ph.D.
Coach, Author, Behavioral Scientist
Dedicated to helping you find Great Love Fast!

01/02/2023

Love is in the air and a great relationship is waiting for you. Can you feel it? Let’s do it! What are you waiting for - enroll now!

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01/01/2023

New Year, Find Love!

Are you tired of painful dating experiences, relationships that don’t last, and can’t stomach the idea of starting again? What if you could find the partner of your dreams by leveraging science to magnetically draw in the partner you want – and do it FAST!

This Holiday season we are offering The Find Great Love Fast program at a discounted price. Only $44 using code gifttome

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12/31/2022

Do you have a relative or friend who struggles to find or maintain romantic relationships? Are you tired of seeing them go through painful dating experiences & relationships that don’t last?

Give the gift of love with The Find Great Love Fast program. This program outlines exactly how to find great partners & remove obstacles to great dates.

This Holiday season we are offering this program at a discounted price. Only $44 using code gifttome

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Learn More Here - https://www.resingled.net/