12/12/2025
In a world where there is so much focus on body shape & size, try not to be fixated on that one thing. I suggest you be the person that people look up to - especially your kids. Not because of how you look, but because of what you can do & the person you are.
I was going through photos for this post to emphasize the importance of being strong, and I stumbled across this one. It wasn’t really what I had in mind to use, but then I noticed all 3 of my kids were looking up at me as I was going through mile 40 at OT100. To be honest, I’m not sure if they understood what was going on, but all I know is they were happy to be there and cheer me on, and I think eventually they will realize how cool it is to have a badass ultra runner mom. :)
At the end of the day, I would not be able to run 50+ miles per week, lift 4 days per week, and ride my bike if I wasn’t fueling properly. There might come a time in your life where you question, do I want to be able to do hard things and have a strong body to get me through a particular race, long ride, or any other event, or do I want to just look a specific way.
Because I will tell you this, if I wasn’t eating enough to try to fit a size that my body doesn’t want to be, I certainly wouldn’t be running 100 mile races, deadlifting my body weight, and I definitely wouldn’t have the energy to spend time with my kids.
The obsession with thinness is back, but just because it’s here, you don’t have to give into to the pressure to look like everyone else. I am not a conformist and have no desire to get sucked into that because I know what matters the most to me, and you are looking at it. :)