
08/22/2025
ANW's Fruitful Friday
What keeps you safe and protected?
When trauma, stress, and control are involved, safety becomes an issue, as it affects one's entire well being.
Functioning in toxicity, for almost 20 years, became unsafe. The toleration of the uncivil took out the civil, at alarming rates. Because of this toxicity, I succumbed to an stress-induced heart attack, in my office at work, at 46 years of age. And, because of this traumatic and life changing event, I hid, and became a refugee in my own home, for almost 7 months, scared to leave for fear of what might happen to me again.
Now, 7 and 1/2 years removed, I can say that hiding from the world is an option, but not the answer, because you are are allowing the unjust to win, thereby robbing yourself of living, laughing, and loving. But, what I did take away from this lengthy sabbatical, is gaining a very close friend, God, who has taken my distrust, anger, and fear, and has replaced it with strength, gratitude, joy, happiness, blessings, compassion, confidence, peace, calm, prayer, and so much more. I, can, now, with 100% confidence, step out of my home, and know that I am safe and protected at all times.
So, if you find yourself a refugee, like I was, might you remember that He "lifts up those who are bowed down" (Psalm 146:8) and builds them back up with a skill set that protects, such as wisdom, strength, confidence, and resilience, aside from having His continuous protection and willingness to "remain faithful forever" (Psalm 146:6).