Maternal Instincts By Jill-Birth Doula And Breastfeeding Services

08/23/2025

Can not forget to celebrate those little rainbows that have arrived or are being awaited to brighten the skies 🌈

Mine came after we lost sweet Morgan Nickol Duke. God knew my heart was broken to a point, only he drew comfort from the darknesses around me .

God heard my prayers, my pleas🙏🏻 One day I heard him call me saying “ Ask me AGAIN “…. I dropped to my knees and did that Sunday morning. I asked and I named my request again!

God did it, he blessed me again with a child, a little boy named William Lee Duke. He was perfect and healthy and came into this world like a wrecking ball😅

So today, I say thank you Lord, for being so good to me. And know that one day, you too will be blessed. Keep asking AGAIN and AGAIN ❤️

08/21/2025

🌟 Discover a Gentle, Empowered Birth & Breastfeeding Journey with Maternal Instincts By Jill 🌟

Hi, I’m Jill, your certified guide and passionate advocate for preventing birth trauma and easing breastfeeding challenges.

At Maternal Instincts By Jill, I’m here to support you through every stage of motherhood with expert guidance, emotional care, and practical tips—whether you’re preparing for birth, navigating breastfeeding, or embracing life with your newborn. 💕

After my own struggles with post-birth recovery and breastfeeding my firstborn, I found healing through The Thompson Method, a gentle, natural approach that works with your body and baby. Now, I’m dedicated to helping you feel confident, connected, and empowered in your motherhood journey.

🌿 Services Offered (Virtual & In-Person):
✅ Personalized birth preparation to help you feel ready and in control
✅ Breastfeeding support to overcome challenges and build a strong bond with your baby
✅ Emotional guidance to navigate the highs and lows of motherhood
✅ Practical tips for a positive, trauma-free birth and postpartum experience

Whether you’re joining me virtually from anywhere or in person, I’m here to be your trusted companion. Ready to start your journey? Book a FREE discovery call today and let’s create a nurturing, joyful experience together! ✨
👉 Click here to learn more and book your call: https://maternal-instincts.com/

08/07/2025

Less than 15% of women are exclusively breastfeeding at 6 months, and many feel forced to give up due to painful complications.

So why is it that many women are able to avoid or overcome these complications by using The Thompson Method?

Simply put, it’s because of the gentle approach based on Dr Robyn Thompson's PhD research and 50 years experience as a midwife, that is respectful to you and your baby as unique individuals.

I’ll be honest with you.

As a Certified Thompson Method Breastfeeding Educator, my role is not to tell you what to do.

No, my aim is to share my information with you, so that you can make informed decisions.

Even in unexpected situations.

Why is this so important now?

Because women are being rushed in, through and out of the hospital system and its impacting on their breastfeeding journey.

Women who are planning to give birth within the system are at risk of becoming Victims of the System, if they are not aware of their rights and are not well informed BEFORE the give birth.

Now, more than ever before, evidence based information is the key. And when you understand that the events that occur during your labour and birth, greatly influence your breastfeeding journey, it will make much more sense.

It's important to acknowledge that there are times when intervention is necessary, and this is when our hospital system is at its best.

But when intervention is recommended unnecessarily, say for the convenience of some individuals or because of hospital policy, it often creates a cascade of intervention… increasing the risk of further intervention, increasing the need for op**te pain relief and ultimately increasing the risk of painful breastfeeding complications.

If you want to breastfeed and reduce the risk of the common complications, I encourage you to consider the Thompson Method Breastfeeding Education Sessions for Pregnant Women.

I will provide you with gentle guidance and education so that you can gain the knowledge from one reliable source to make informed decisions with confidence that are the best interests of you and your baby.

I look forward to supporting you as you prepare for your pain-free breastfeeding journey.

The picture below Is the only one I have of my first born nurturing. We had so many complications with breastfeeding after being induced for non medical reasons.

Oh what I would have given to know what I did with my youngest🫶

08/01/2025

As a certified Thompson Method coach, this makes me so emotional... 💕

Dr. Robyn's legacy continues this World Breastfeeding Week with their first ever FREE 3-Day event for pregnant women.

I've seen this method transform breastfeeding experiences - from painful struggles to confident success.

August 4-6 | Completely FREE | Replay available if you can’t make it - but you need to register!

🇺🇸 Alabam Time (CDT)

* Day 1 | Aug 4th | 5pm
* Day 2 | Aug 5th | 5pm
* Day 3 | Aug 6th | 5pm

🇦🇺 Sydney Time (AEST)

* Day 1 | Aug 5th | 8am
* Day 2 | Aug 6th | 8am
* Day 3 | Aug 7th | 8am

🇬🇧 London Time (BST)

* Day 1 | Aug 4th | 11pm
* Day 2 | Aug 5th | 11pm
* Day 3 | Aug 6th | 11pm

Every pregnant woman deserves this preparation:

✅ Day 1 | PREPARE: How your birth decisions determine breastfeeding success (and prevent ni**le pain)

✅ Day 2 | PROTECT & POSITION: Master the critical "3 Golden Hours" and Dr. Robyn's gentle positioning method

✅ Day 3 | PACE & PRODUCE: Build your milk supply and sustain success for as long as YOU choose

Most women wait until problems start. The smart ones prepare during pregnancy.

Link in the comments to register FREE! 🙏

07/24/2025

Away Supporting a beautiful family ❤️

07/12/2025

Guess what! New website is officially open❤️

Got my website finally re done!!! https://maternal-instincts.com/home

I'm a passionate advocate dedicated to preventing birth trauma and easing the pain often associated with breastfeeding. My journey began after feeling I failed my firstborn son — struggling with post-birth recovery and breastfeeding difficulties, I experienced a disconnect with my newborn, which l...

02/07/2025

😍 This is such a huge milestone

Now let’s bring this to Alabama!!! Not just a tub to labor in and then get out when pushing. But to stay as long as mom chooses 🙌

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/191TJ9yihF/?mibextid=wwXIfr

The collaborative care I witnessed early this morning at Southern Tennessee Regional Health System Lawrenceburg from every one of us in the room was astounding. I watched as a midwife rearranged a room with her nurse to accommodate a laboring mother nearing the end of her labor. I watched as we all encouraged and guided mom. I watched us ALL support her how SHE needed. I watched mom dig deep within herself and bring this baby into the world happily, JOYFULLY. Still processing but in the most wonderful way possible because it was just a beautiful, almost other worldly experience that I cannot believe I was able to be part of. Congratulations to the sweet new family and to the workers who are actively creating a safe space for mom and changing birth outlook!☀️🫶🏼

02/07/2025

Jean-Eugène Buland - Parental Bliss (1903)

Found this photo and had to share it❤️ Appears to be a family praying over the food behind them or even for the baby.

The mom looks tired from a long day of caring for her baby and tending to the house work.

Also see that her baby could use a little finetuning by rolling babies tummy to her own tummy.

What do you see?

02/05/2025

Hi everyone ❤️ Wanted to pop in and talk about 4 questions you need to ask while interviewing a DOULA for your labor , and birth.

1.What is your experience with childbirth?
It’s good to ask how many births they have attended, are they new? Have they birthed children of their own?

For me- I have two sons and have been advocating for birthing mother for the last two years so far in my practice 💕

2.What is your philosophy on childbirth?
This one is also great to know because your thoughts on how labor should go may not line up with the birthing mothers.

For me- Labor and birth is a natural and safe process that should be left alone unless of a true medical need. Birth should be maternal led and we as professionals should sit on your hands, watch and support🙌

3.What is your availability before and after birth? Lots of planning and preparation happens before baby is born. It’s good to know the availability of the doula you wish to hire and when they are available to be with you.

For me- I offer daily check ins two weeks before and after your “estimated due date “, as well as two weeks postpartum once at home for continuous care💕

4. How do you handle unexpected situations during labor?
The unknown can be scary, but print prepared for the good, the bad, and even the ugly is most important. Along with bedside manners and professionalism during an emergency.

For me- I help guide the birthing parents during pregnancy in preparation for any outcome during labor and birth through my classes. Staying calm and knowing moms wants and wishes in that moment can be most beneficial , especially in an emergency situation.

02/03/2025

Things I learned during my last birth advocacy :

1.Pack throw up pouches in my doula bag!!!
2.Labor can throw curve balls at you and even keep myself guessing.
3.Water soothes back labor, bring a wet suite next time.
4.Don't forget to bring your snacks for the chance of a long labor.
5.No matter what, keep advocating for your clients wishes and be ready for those wishes to change.
6.Sometimes you need to speak out about a provider who was unprofessional towards the doula.

But all and all GRACE!!!
Grace in a person is the quality of being kind, polite, and understanding towards others, especially in difficult situations.

01/31/2025

Differentiating Between Hunger and Discomfort in Infants:

Infants exhibit various behaviors when hungry or experiencing gas or spastic pain in the gut, including stirring, mouth opening, rooting, and hand-to-mouth movement. These cues can be indicative of either hunger or discomfort. Babies often attempt to self-soothe a sore tummy by sucking on hands or even the breast, which can lead to complications if the baby is full or has recently fed.

Recognizing the distinction between true hunger and gas can greatly benefit an infant's health and promote a more peaceful night's sleep for both infant and caregiver. 👀

01/28/2025

Did you know the “Due Date” is an estimated guess at best?

This date is often 1-2 weeks off.

Often going by the last day of your period…
But what about when you ovulated?

Let’s look what Dr Sara Wickham talks about in her blog post on due dates🙌

https://www.sarawickham.com/articles-2/why-your-estimated-due-date-might-need-a-rethink/