06/16/2025
As someone who lost my father at the age of 12, celebrating Father’s Day has always been tough. I feel so grateful that my children have such a wonderful dad of their own to celebrate, but the pain so many feel on this holiday is not lost on me.
This year, my perspective has shifted a bit. I’m recognizing that there are so many unique ways to celebrate Father’s Day.
I have been lucky to have many father figures in my own life, to step in and support me after my dad passed away. And now I recognize how many men support my own children, loving them as if they were their own.
My daughter wanted to make cards for Father’s Day for her dad and grandfather… and then proceeded to ask if she could make cards for one of her uncles, and my mom’s boyfriend. At first I said “no, they aren’t your dad or they have their own kids to celebrate them”, but then I realized that these men play such an important role in her life and they deserve to know how much they mean to my kids.
If you are a mom who is grieving not having your own dad to celebrate, or for your kids to celebrate today, I want you to know that I see you. It has taken me 25 years without my own dad to really grasp that father figures come in all shapes and forms, and even though no one may be able to replace the loss of a biological parent I hope that you can find the love and support from other men in your life for both yourself and your children.
It does take a village, and I think we too often overlook the men who lift us up and care for us.
Happy Father’s Day to all of the dads out there, the men who serve as a father figure, and to the moms who step up to play both roles. ♥️