12/09/2020
Perspective Matters
When faced with a challenging situation, it may seem that things will never improve, and that the challenge will be there forever, or at least for a very long time.
The truth is, things are constantly in a state of change. Nothing stays the same forever. Nothing. Although it may not seem this way, particularly when you are caught up in the daily challenges of life.
Perspective is powerful. The vantage point from which you view things has a potent effect on how you feel about and handle difficult situations.
Here’s a fun exercise you can do to remind yourself that just like with past challenges, you will likely come through any current difficulties or struggles:
1: Bring to mind a challenging time you had in the past that is now completely behind you.
Really put yourself there, and ask yourself these questions:
On a scale of 1-10, how much did this challenge negatively impact my life, with 10 being the most?
How long did the difficult time last?
On a scale of 1-10, right now, in the present, how much does this past challenge negatively impact my life?
2: Now bring to mind a challenging time you are currently facing, and ask yourself:
On a scale of 1-10, how much does this challenge negatively impact my life, with 10 being the most?
On a scale of 1-10, how hopeful am I that I will get past this challenge, with 10 being most hopeful?
3: Travel ONE YEAR into the future (really put yourself there), and ask yourself:
Regarding the challenging time I faced one year ago, on a scale of 1-10, how much does this challenge negatively impact my life, with 10 being the most?
4: Now travel FIVE YEARS into the future, and ask yourself:
Regarding the challenging time I faced five years ago, on a scale of 1-10, how much does this challenge negatively impact my life, with 10 being the most?
5: Come back to the present, and repeat this question regarding your current challenge:
On a scale of 1-10, how hopeful am I that I will get past this challenge, with 10 being most hopeful?
6: Notice if there has been a shift. Are you more hopeful that you will get through your current challenge? If not, don’t fret.
Keep in mind that all things change. You move and grow through challenges continuously throughout your life.
Continue to remind yourself of past challenges that you came through that may have seemed impossible at the time. As you learn to shift your perspective in this way, you may find that you being to view challenges in a new way.