18/02/2025
Blustery winter weather makes it the perfect time to connect about something that’s been on my mind for a while—nefarious practices in the wellness and self-help world.
Lately, I’ve been noticing certain trends that don’t sit right:
- 6, 8 or 12-week coaching programs promising total life transformation—for a hefty price.
- Psychics, mediums, and channelers with entertainment backgrounds charging top dollar.
- Wellness professionals suddenly running “coaching” programs about making money.
- Anyone who tells you to take out a loan to join their retreat, program, or system—just run!
And here’s the thing—I’m not just speaking from the sidelines. I’ve been duped, too. I’ve fallen for the polished pitches, the big promises, the urgency tactics that made me feel like I’d miss out if I didn’t act fast. And I know how frustrating (and expensive) it can be to realize later that it was all smoke and mirrors. That’s exactly why I’m sharing this—so you can spot the warning signs before getting caught up in the hype.
Making Money Isn’t the Problem—It’s the Intention Behind It
Let’s be clear: making money isn’t bad. In fact, being well-compensated for meaningful, ethical work is a good thing. The problem is when money becomes the only goal—when people exploit trust, create false urgency, or pressure others into financial decisions that don’t serve them. True abundance comes from offering real value, being in integrity, and building something sustainable.
When You Have to Dig for the Price—That’s a Red Flag
Ever clicked on a program, only to be dragged through endless pages of emotional sales talk before finally, somewhere at the bottom (or only after a “free call”), you find out it costs thousands? Transparency matters. If a service is valuable, the price shouldn’t be buried under layers of persuasion.
So, what should you look for?
*Longevity – Real healers have been doing this work long before it became trendy.
*Sliding scale fees or fair pricing – Ethical practitioners want healing to be accessible.
*No high-pressure sales tactics – If someone pushes urgency, fear, or FOMO, it’s a red flag.
*Clear, upfront pricing – No need to dig through a novel to find out what something costs.
*Substance Over Hype – Is their message actually insightful and valuable, or just big promises with little depth? Look for people who share real knowledge, not just constant pitches.
*Personal Testimonials That Feel Real – Are the reviews specific, thoughtful, and varied? Or do they all sound the same, like generic praise? Genuine feedback stands out.
*A Sense of Respect & Ethics – Do they honor your free will, or are they trying to convince you they have all the answers? True guides empower you, they don’t create dependency.
I share all of this because I’ve been there, and I want to help others navigate this world with clarity, confidence, and trust in their own intuition. If something feels off, it probably is. And if you ever want guidance on finding genuine support, I’m here to help.