30/09/2025
an uncomfortable share…⬇️
If I didn’t work online as a women’s fat loss & health coach I would care a LOT LESS about what I look like
I wouldn’t step on the scale
I wouldn’t chase a new low for 25% of the year
I wouldn’t put so much pressure on myself to act a certain way or look a certain way
Why?
Because as I’m on minute 87 on this bike workout at 8:30am on a Tuesday, I’ve had a LOT of time to reflect.
what matters to me?
who would I be without social media?
I’d be her 🩷⬇️
- someone who celebrates accomplishments and consistency over macros and scale weigh ins
- someone who focuses on relationships, happiness & memories instead of the perfect pre or post workout meal
- someone who wants to feel good all the time, instead of trying to combat restrictive mindsets from dieting often
‼️ don’t get me wrong, tracking food and scale weights play a HUGE roll in your success for the body you want and finding confidence. BUT as I coach all of my women, my goal is for you to not track, to maintain and grow, and to only use those as tools for a means to an end. Not forever ‼️
And I know, my goals are always changing, always evolving. But as of right now, with my butt on this bike seat, hurting a lot lol- I can say for certain that I want to spend the next year training for this triathlon doing what I coach my girls to do, post program.
✨ eating to fuel, focusing on quality and portion sizes
✨ place more emphasis on trusting myself without tracking, and without the scale
✨ practice what I preach, and focus on embodying what it looks like POST program, instead of dieting each year for another 10lbs down
I spent a long time chasing someone else’s dream (bodybuilding) and not knowing what I truly wanted. I faced SO much resistance to it and always struggled because I couldn’t ever keep those goals in sight, because at the end of the day I wasn’t aligned.
I AM aligned with
✨ endurance training
✨ lifting for strength and confidence
✨ date nights and home cooked recipes
✨ eating to fuel my goals, not to see how little I can eat to stay lean
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