Why Aren't You Over This By Now?

15/02/2026

The F-word (forgiveness) is the lesson for today with a little P-word (perception) woven in.

We all look at the world through the lens of our own history. Every experience we have had shapes how we perceive what is happening around us. The truth is, we rarely know the full story of what someone else has lived through or is carrying right now. People who have been wounded often act from that wound, and sometimes their pain spills onto others.

Our perception is woven into our willingness, or unwillingness, to forgive.

Forgiveness is for us. It releases us. Forgiveness is healing. Forgiveness does not mean relationship, it means we stop holding someone responsible, so God can deal with that person. Today’s lesson asks that we pause a few times to think of anyone we have not forgiven, including ourselves as we are just as deserving to be forgiven.

21/01/2026

As you look through your thoughts and notice the different ways attack shows up in your mind, take a moment to gently consider each one.

Say to yourself that, “I am determined to see things differently. “

When working with clients to reprocess memories, after we have taken care of what the client needs, I ask them to take a step back to see the whole picture of what was happening, look at the other person, or people, involved. Step back and look at that person to see what is possibly going on with them. We rarely know what has happened in another person’s life to cause them to act and behave the way they have. Never an excuse.

Again, this is NEVER an excuse for bad behaviors; it is just an explanation to realize that what happened was never about you, and it was always about them.

Wholeheartedly see what hurt you in a different way to free yourself from the negative self-talk, self-punishment, and all the negative emotions. Free your energy from the past. Love Your Future By Healing Your Past.
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03/05/2025

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15/09/2024

16/03/2024

Other people’s opinion of you does not matter because we see people for who we are, not who they are. Give yourself that freedom.

25/12/2023

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26/10/2023

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01/09/2023

Such a powerful image of what not to do. Our subconscious minds take every word and every thought to make sure the person experiences those words and thoughts. I want to believe that most everyone wants what is best for their children and our words are the first way to make sure that the best happens.

31/08/2023

We know more today than any of our past selves knew, but we judge the past selves with our current knowledge. Simply not fair. Make peace with your past selves, forgive them for the choices they made and the decisions that were not helpful. They did not know.

29/07/2023

We have set a date for a Special Meeting to be held online on July 31st at 6:30PM MST. Message me for the zoom link.

This meeting you will meet our Board Members, receive an update, have an opportunity to ask questions and hear of our plan to move forward with Marketing. We are looking for investors for class D shares for $1000 CAD and this will be a Public Meeting. So feel free to invite anyone you think may be interested in investing in our corporation.
Hope to see you there!

HiViibe Board
Jocelyn Pettitt, Chair
Dr. Kelly James, Vice Chair
Dr. Oscar Ruelas, Business Director of Operations
Elissa Lansdell, Communications Director
Maisoon Suleiman, Secretary