
11/09/2025
The Tragedy of Baby Leon: What It Teaches Us About Power and Protection in Surrogacy
The heartbreaking story of venture capitalist Cindy Bi and her stillborn son via surrogacy, known publicly as Baby Leon, has sparked an international debate about ethics, accountability, and protection in assisted reproduction.
In this case, a California surrogate tragically lost the pregnancy at 29 weeks due to a placental abruption. Instead of shared grief, the aftermath brought lawsuits, investigations, and a wave of public attacks. The devastated surrogate was doxxed, harassed, and forced to relocate. Bi responded with a public campaign in her child’s name, framing the tragedy as negligence rather than an unforeseeable medical loss.
This case forces us to confront uncomfortable truths:
Surrogates and agencies often face immense risks when intended parents with wealth, status, and legal resources use those advantages punitively.
How can we safeguard surrogates from retaliation while still providing intended parents with the compassion and support they deserve in times of grief?
Even those accustomed to controlling outcomes in their careers cannot control the deeply human, fragile, and unpredictable nature of pregnancy.
When intended parents wield money and influence to punish those around them, the result can be devastating. Surrogates and agencies suffer deeply when caught in the crosshairs of grief, anger, and blame.
As professionals, we must push for:
Transparent contracts that clearly protect all parties.
Mental health and legal support for surrogates and intended parents before, during, and after a pregnancy.
Compassionate, trauma-informed responses when a tragic loss occurs.
Industry-wide acknowledgment of the money and power gap, and proactive systems to prevent surrogates and agencies from being ruined by it.
Surrogacy is built on trust, care, and vulnerability. This case is a painful reminder that when those values are replaced by fear, blame, or imbalance, everyone suffers. Our industry must do more to level the scales of money and power so that surrogates and agencies are not left defenseless in moments of tragedy. One way forward is for professionals in this field to step up as expert witnesses and advocates, lending our knowledge and experience to ensure fair treatment and stronger protections.
By combining our expertise, we can strengthen this industry and build a framework rooted in compassion, accountability, and respect for everyone involved.