23/02/2024
HOSTILE RELATIONS -
When you hate someone, it's exactly like loving them: you already have a connection with them. Hate is as strong as love.
If you want to free yourself from someone, never see them again, don't hate them, be indifferent.
If you hate him, you will bind yourself to him with chains that nothing will be able to untie; you will be with him all the time and you will deal with him for years and years.
Hate is a force that binds you to the person you hate.
It is the same as in love, but, of course, the connection is different. Love will bring you some things and hate others, but as sure and strong as love.
💜 LOVE as a means of defense
So that you can defend yourself from your enemies, love them. If you detest them, despise them or hate them, your aura is broken and through these breaks a communication is established with everything that is negative, harmful in them and thus you receive their evils, their hatred that once entered you, begins to destroy you .
This is why Jesus said "Love your enemies". Jesus knew these laws, he knew that when we hate someone, we become vulnerable. To defend ourselves, we must enter the impregnable fortress of love. Loving our enemies is one of the hardest things to do, but it is the only way to defend ourselves from them.
People need to stop hating each other. This weakens the body and brings disease. Argument, anger, impatience silently emit a great destructive force. Being angry with your neighbor is one of the most widespread violations of the laws of the universe that can cause various unpleasantness in life, both for the person you are angry with and in your own life.
No one can do anything against his neighbor without paying dearly for this lack of love. Only through love can dry up the source of evil.
The man who commits a reprehensible deed will record his deed in his own cause, in time, it will return as an effect. He who does good will find good. Let's not spit in the well because we might drink water from it. You cannot stop hate by using revenge to fight it. Every violence gives birth to a counterattack. You cannot fight evil with evil. It's like fighting fire with fire.
It is better to cry than to hate. If you have not been able to defeat yourself aggression inevitably accumulates. When you cry, the aggression that has arisen is destroyed.
If someone unwittingly steps on your foot, it means that he is not at fault. So the fault of what happened lies in you. Therefore, you must ask forgiveness in your mind for this. This way you will find that the annoyance will disappear immediately. A severe upset that does not go away is already a pretty serious illness.
In critical situations, in no case do not let yourself be overcome by fear or anger, because you will miss.
The sufferings we often complain about, unjustly blaming fate, are our work and belong to us entirely. Everything is paid, and the good deed as well as the bad. The law that regulates the various actions of people, positive or negative, has been known since ancient times and is called the law of retribution, what you don't like, don't do to another.
If every second the soul hates and blames the surrounding world, then in every fraction of a second man self-destructs.
If there is hatred towards the opponent, then it is impossible to defeat.
To defeat the opponent you have to love him. The man who wins through hatred and thinks he has won, has actually lost.
Only he doesn't see this. Even if he destroyed the opponent he will surely perish afterwards. Thus to defeat the adversary he must be loved.
Hatred of another person always means su***de.
Love has great physical, mental, emotional and spiritual healing power.
The pleasure of gossiping, lying and hurting other people causes devastating karmic effects on the criticizing soul. He condemns himself to live in the prison of inner restlessness. All who sow evil will reap suffering and delusion. Don't defend yourself emotionally when someone upsets you, i.e. never respond with a reproach or anger to the upset. When your neighbor is angry with you, send him love instead of hate and anger. .
To annihilate aggression, the person in question must pray with joy every night for the health of the person he hates. If you have an aversion to someone, then when you pray, evoke his serene face and mentally give him peace, health and love, by restoring the law of love through forgiveness you regain your health.. Forgiving a person who offended or upset us we can heal from a serious illness.
Pray constantly that everyone around you will be happy, healthy and the whole world will be blessed. This prayer will radiate so much love to the whole world that love will return to you in abundance. As you give, so you receive.
By taking revenge you make yourself equal to the opponent. Forgiving him makes you look superior. By forgiving we free ourselves to be able to rise. Let us be aware that by forgiving we free those who have wronged us, so by forgiving we offer freedom. To choose the path of forgiveness, because only it opens the wound stuck in time. Because if you do not forgive, neither will your Father forgive you your mistakes. (Mark 11.26).
Forgiveness is safe only when you do not think negatively about the one forgiven. When you can have it in front of you without any resentment, any judgment, when you accept it as it is. Only in this way does forgiveness become real. If we try to defend ourselves all the more we attract the attack on us. Our defense must focus only on love, sending the aggressor a gift of love and not hate.
The real cause of drug addiction and alcoholism is a low level of love. This occurs because of strong frustrations, the repression of love towards people. Man must stop resenting the world around him, enter into harmony with it.
Humanity must learn to love again: God, the Universe, people, the surrounding world, the past, the present and the future.
If you want to transform the criminal, you must stop punishing him and start loving him. In this way the most terrible criminal will soften when he is put in front of true love and care.
If we help a man to stand up when he has fallen, it is called support. But if we continue to support him after he got up and started walking, it is called humiliation and perversion. Without compassion and helping one's neighbor, man would not be man. But if this compassion penetrates deep inside, it begins to harm the soul of the one we pity, obscuring, as it were, the personal responsibility of man before God.
If we help a poor family with food, clothing, etc. in the next life, that family will in turn repay us, so that in this way the karma will be satisfied.
When you give someone advice, you also give that person the right to choose. If the advice was inappropriate she alone will have to decide whether to follow it or not so the responsibility will fall on her shoulders not yours. If the advice was given in a categorical tone the one who will bear the consequences of a wrong action you will be yourself."
( ✍️ Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov )
