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Calling in a special soul We’re about to film something so dear to my heart, a Red Tent Ceremony to honor a young girl’s...
07/07/2025

Calling in a special soul

We’re about to film something so dear to my heart, a Red Tent Ceremony to honor a young girl’s first period, also known as her menarche.

This sacred rite of passage has been forgotten in so many cultures… but we’re here to change that.

We’re co-creating a magical experience for a mama and her daughter to celebrate this transition into womanhood with ritual, beauty, wisdom, and deep reverence.

We’re partnering with amazing conscious brands (like ) to make this moment unforgettable.

But here’s the thing:
We’re still looking for the right girl — someone who just got or is about to get her first period and a mama who wants to honor her daughter in this powerful way.

If that’s you, or you know someone, DM me.
Let’s give her a memory she’ll carry for life. 🌹

To the fathers doing the work… we see you. To the men healing generational wounds, showing up with open hearts, learning...
16/06/2025

To the fathers doing the work… we see you.

To the men healing generational wounds, showing up with open hearts, learning how to love more deeply, and leading their families with presence… today, we honor you.

You’re breaking patterns that weren’t yours to carry.
You’re rewriting the story for your children with gentleness, strength, and integrity.
You’re listening more. Loving better. And showing the world that masculinity can be both powerful and soft.

Father’s Day is celebration and recognition of the inner work, the growth and the courage it takes to be fully here.

Your presence is the greatest gift you could ever give. And it’s changing everything.

Happy Father’s Day to the cycle-breakers, the conscious kings, the protectors and nurturers. You are redefining what it means to be a man.

We’re so grateful you’re here.

Tag an someone you know that is embodying this below and remind them of how special they are 😘

18/09/2024

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard!

Linda Freivalde, Samantha Jones

✨The Power of Presence✨A few days ago, I was rushing. Late again. And I hate being late—it stirs an anxiety in me that p...
16/09/2024

✨The Power of Presence✨

A few days ago, I was rushing. Late again. And I hate being late—it stirs an anxiety in me that pulls me out of presence, into frantic energy.

He comes in, calm as ever, and tells me, “Take a deep breath.”

I do. But as soon as I exhale, I’m back in rushing mode, trying to escape his presence, desperate to move.

“Breathe with me,” he says.
This time, I do.

We inhale together. We exhale together. Slowly, he lifts my hands above my head and caresses the sides of my arms, our breaths perfectly in sync.

My nervous system softens. I remember what’s truly important. Our eyes meet, and in that moment, I feel grounded.

We kiss.
We embrace.
We flow into pleasure.

Now, I carry on with my day, but with a whole new energy. Calm. Present. In my power. And everything I did felt like it was in flow with the universe.

👉Have you ever experienced a moment like this? A time when someone’s presence brought you back to yourself? I’d love to hear your story. 💕

Someone recently asked us, “What gives you the right to call yourselves The Love Gurus?”The truth is, we don’t see ourse...
21/08/2024

Someone recently asked us, “What gives you the right to call yourselves The Love Gurus?”

The truth is, we don’t see ourselves as gurus in the traditional sense or in thinking we have all the answers. The name chose us. And we keep choosing the name. It’s more than just a title—it’s a path we’ve committed to walking every single day.

When you name yourself a love guru, the universe has a way of testing you—pushing you to truly learn and embody the lessons of love. Believe us, these lessons aren’t always easy. We’re constantly challenged by each other and by life itself to dive deeper into what love really means.

Sometimes, this journey is downright painful. We’ve had to look at all the places within ourselves that feel unlovable or unworthy. We’ve had to confront our own shadows, our own fears, and learn to love ourselves and each other despite them.

We walk this path not because it’s easy, but because we know that through our own struggles and growth, we can help you navigate yours. We’re here to be mirrors for you, reflecting the light that you might not always see in yourself.

So when we call ourselves The Love Gurus, it’s not about claiming to have it all figured out—it’s about committing to the journey, learning alongside you, and helping you find your way back to love, even in the hardest moments.

What lessons of love are you learning right now? Share with us in the comments, and let’s continue walking this path together. ❤️

Hey everyone, it’s Aila from The Love Gurus.I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on what it means to truly connect.  In a w...
20/08/2024

Hey everyone, it’s Aila from The Love Gurus.
I’ve been reflecting a lot lately on what it means to truly connect. In a world that often feels over-curated and picture-perfect, I’ve realized it’s time to strip away the layers and get real.

So, I’m shifting gears here on Instagram. From now on, you’ll see more of the raw, unfiltered moments behind the scenes—the messy, beautiful journey of growth and discovery that we’re all on. I want this space to be a place where we can have real conversations, share our struggles and wins, and support each other in living our fullest lives.

This journey is as much yours as it is mine. Let’s dive deeper together.

Tell me—what’s one thing you’ve been working through or reflecting on lately? I’d love to hear from you in the comments below. Let’s start this conversation. ❤️

Something else to be mindful of are “yellow flags.”Yellow flags are a warning sign, if they’re not caught, they can even...
26/06/2024

Something else to be mindful of are “yellow flags.”

Yellow flags are a warning sign, if they’re not caught, they can eventually turn into red flags.

For example: your partner is still friends with their ex. This is not necessarily a bad thing, but the way they engage in their relationship is something you need to be mindful of.

On one hand, they may have ended things amicably, realizing they weren’t right for each other (this can be a good sign of emotional intelligence and maturity).

On the other hand, it could mean that they don’t know how to set or maintain proper boundaries.

How yellow flags are handled could eventually determine if they turn into green or red flags.

Follow for more.

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When we think of intimacy, our minds often go straight to making love, as it seems like the closest we can get to anothe...
29/05/2024

When we think of intimacy, our minds often go straight to making love, as it seems like the closest we can get to another person. However, if your mind is preoccupied or you’re experiencing conflict, making love might not feel intimate at all. It can feel like you’re a million miles apart.

True intimacy is about feeling close to your beloved.

The slides above show specific examples that help me feel close to him. These activities open my heart and bring us closer together.

Share your favorite ways to feel close to your partner! Comment below with what makes you feel truly connected, or let us know what you would add to the list!


Relationships are such gifts if you allow yourself to grow with the person.  For that you must be willing to face the le...
20/05/2024

Relationships are such gifts if you allow yourself to grow with the person.

For that you must be willing to face the lessons they bring — this means:

❤️ Getting to the root of each argument instead of sweeping things under the rug.

❤️ Being willing to look at all the crunchy/sticky/edgy/scary moments instead of avoiding them or distracting yourself away from them.

❤️ Seeing the divinity and innocence of each other when you get into those arguments. Knowing that your partner’s pain and programming is dictating their behavior.

❤️there are so many more lessons we have personally learned from growing in our love. We are so beyond grateful for each other and the people we have become as a result of staying together.

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My motherhood journey so far had brought me the most joy, depth, fulfillment + expansion of my life. In my pregnancy, I ...
12/05/2024

My motherhood journey so far had brought me the most joy, depth, fulfillment + expansion of my life.

In my pregnancy, I truly found a love + appreciation for my body. I was in awe of myself constantly + truly understood what it was like to be in my goddess energy.

In birth, I found my strength. I realized that in moments when life gets hard, you can breathe, dance, sing, move + it doesn’t have to be the painful story you were expecting. It can be magical + even, dare I say, pleasurable.

In motherhood, I am constantly humbled by the love that keeps deepening for my child, my partner + myself.

Life has been so much richer + I in a state if gratitude that this magical being chose me to be his mother.

Happy Mother’s Day to all the mamas out there.

Slow down. All the answers you seek come in the stillness,In the listening,In the breath.
09/04/2024

Slow down.
All the answers you seek come in the stillness,
In the listening,
In the breath.

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